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Depends. Sometimes they take a bad swing at a joke and realize they fucked it up... sometimes though they're just assholes they are trying to cover being an ass.
It's usually a matter of context to tell which is which.
Oh yeah that's generally true, but something like calling a person fat just sounds like someone's being an asshole and then when they get called out they turn it into your problem for being "too sensitive" because it was "just a joke" – ie. continuing to be an asshole
The correct thing to do with a swing and a miss like that is to apologize. If there's no apology, it's the asshole thinking they have an actual excuse.
this happens to me all the time
tfkirp issthty
Most of the times I swing and miss with a joke, the other person just doesn't connect with my humor. Instead of being offended, I find they're just confused by what just happened.
For example, I had a joke I found funny, but apperently I'm the only one who finds it funny.
See, what you do is.......you go to a place that wouldn't have mustard, like a bus stop. And you ask
And they say something that indicates they don't know, or there isn't any. And you say
I find that joke hilarious. Nobody else gets it. But they aren't offended.....
If your neighbour's donkey is eating your flowers you're entitled to ask them to move their fat ass.
Over time, you start seeing a pattern. If the (superficially) rude things mostly make you laugh, it's the former, if they mostly make you feel bad, it's the latter.