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This is a community for bisexuals, their allies, friends, family, anyone curious about us or our community, or just people who want to hang out.

Bisexual means different things to different people, and I'm not going to tell you what it should mean to you. But one thing I will say is that being bisexual does NOT mean being trans-exclusionary. We love no matter what dingles, dongles, or dangles you do or do not have in your pants.

Of course, there are the basic rules. No hate speech, no brigading, no doxing, no homophobia, no transphobia, no sexism, no racism, no illegal material. Rules will be added as needed.

At the moment, we do not have a hard and fast rule over NSFW images or posts, but I will say that this is a community about bisexuality, not for porn. Please don't make me ban NSFW content altogether.

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is there a way to talk this out or is this a red flag… (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 1 day ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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i’m bi. so is my gf katya.

however, katya is also a HUGE right-wing Trump supporter. she literally follows him on every single account and says stuff like “no one cares abt lgbt rights” which is an odd thing to say as a bi person.

Katya is also very nice to me and very much in love with me, though, despite our differing opinions, and I know she’d be offended if I questioned them.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

How do you possibly feel comfortable giving life changing advice based on what an anonymous person says in a short paragraph?

I didn't give them any advice on how to proceed.

You will literally never see them in your life, know nothing about them.

It's that part. The anonymous, never seeing them part, gives us comfort. You knew the answer your own self but good work being self righteous.

An utter lack of empathy and understanding, caring only about you and your personal politics.

Correct. Their partner doesn't care about others or their personal politics.

I have made my peace with the paradox of tolerance and will provide none to anyone who mentions approval of Trump or right wing policies. Their rhetoric is not "politics". If that means you think I only care about myself that's fine, I don't particularly care what anonymous people on the Internet who I will never see think. See what I did there?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

There is no paradox of tolerance. Tolerance is a social contract. Those who don't abide by it, aren't protected by it. So you are absolutely correct in the last paragraph.