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Yeah if Anon had asked first and she had replied "Taylor swift and watching reality TV" how would he have reacted?
Can't speak for anon, but TS is more enjoyable than one would expect. I downloaded Eras for my wife, expecting it to be long and boring, and watched the whole damn thing and recommended it to my friends that would not have considered watching it.
Reality TV is fine, get a steam deck and game while they watch it. It's so scripted you can stay caught up and gasp at the right moments without looking up.
Yeah i don't know much about TS but as an extreme metal fan happily married to a K-pop & K-drama fan, I agree with your point. But again, there's a lot of signal in those various situations.
The girl in the story has clearly signaled that pop-culture tastes are important for her in a potential partner, while you and I have clearly signaled that it isn't. Both are very valid.
You're missing the point.
It sounds like you took my post as 'anime fans aren't all losers'. I didn't say that.
I was trying to say that it's okay she rejected him for that and he should be happy that he won't waste any more dates on a person who considers his hobbies a turn-off.
I was actually agreeing with you. She rejected him for liking anime just like he may have rejected him for liking Taytay & reality TV. As you said, dating is not a speedrun to making some random person like you - it's a search for someone you like and who likes you back. Personal interests and hobbies are a great proxy to finding that person. But of course you have to be in a good place mentally, and not ready to ditch your dignity for validation from a random person you might not even like if you were frank with yourself.