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It's hard for me to tell if this comment is sarcastic or not. Considering we're on Lemmy, I guess it's serious? But it really feels like it's straight from a skit.
I read it as a series of rhetorical questions intended to illustrate how crochet is political, even if nobody is going in with the intent of being political (e.g. a crochet group specifically for PoliticalPartyNameHereMembers, people creating crochet projects showing support for this or that politician's platform).
That said, if they approached me at a crochet group asking me those questions I would feel very uncomfortable. And then I'd torture myself over okay but are they doing that because the discomfort is needed to encourage you to make a change for the better? Or are they just enjoying making me feel bad for having enough privilege to have a hobby? Or am I just presuming bad intent on their part so I do not have to face the uncomfortable thing and make an inconvenient change? My own shocker I'm not white guilt complex may or may not be showing—I'm painfully aware how bad others have it while 1) I don't have it nearly as bad through no merit of my own but mere chance, and 2) I don't dedicate my every waking hour to optimizing these less fortunate peoples' outcomes. I guess what I was trying to get at here is, point gotten that crochet is political, but (perhaps because of my own personal hangups, as well as the usual issues involved in reading tone online, with no tone of voice or body language to guide us) it also reads kind of confrontational instead of just calmly informative.