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Do you often dumb-down what you say on social media? (leminal.space)

submitted 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

As my favorite philosopher, Natalie Wynn, said

I think it's heartwarming gibberish but there is also, I think, a legitimate role in the discourse for heartwarming gibberish. Sometimes you have to explain what being trans is to a person who believes that dogs go to heaven and, in most circumstances, saying "I'm a female soul in a male body" gets the point across.

As a disabled, trans, vegan, anarchist my life and beliefs are far more complicated than I could express in a comment section. So I tend not to lead with any of those labels and instead focus on quippy one liners about personal liberty from goverment or religious institutions.

No random person wants to read my nuanced memoirs, but they will read and remember pithy snark. I'm an anarchist that sounds like a libertarian fool, but it's the language that more people in mixed company relate to.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

I'm disappointed there was no quippy one-liner or pithy snark in your comment. ☹️

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

I try not to label myself. it's extremely limiting by design. and this is a space where those limitations don't matter if you don't let them.

That being said I often self identify in the context of conversations about my interests.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

A kind of politics-flavored smalltalk. Yes, that is the local dialect.

Believe it or not, I have discussed subjects that matter deeply to me in online forums. But lately it's just fruitless fishing.

I think we have a thousand mob-squawks posing as niche communities. Different flavors, same conversations.

Completely open and popular forums are not entirely a good thing.