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Upholding my boundaries is exhausting (redlemmy.com)

submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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It's barely noon and I'm ready for bed.

People that take too much require an exhausting amount of energy to defend against. By the time I'm done protecting myself, they've usually got what they want anyway, it sometimes feels like there's no point

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Welcome to AskLemmy. A community in which you can ask questions. What is the question you wish to ask?

If it’s just general complaining or thoughts you may be better suited with c/casualconversation or another one like it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

We won’t bar someone from getting their needs met because they didn’t conform to a specific post format.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

This is redlemmy.com not lemmy.world. Feel free to read the sidebar, and if you're still confused, ask a moderator for more info.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

It's off-topic but I feel like this is the best of what the Fediverse has to offer: same basic "purpose", different rules, different vibes.