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How would you process the fact that a new friend of yours is a cop? (USA) (lemmy.world)

submitted 2 weeks ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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One of my new friends is/was a cop. Just found out about it. I genuinely believe ACAB, and this news has me conflicted because my new friend seems really cool and super nice. I don't know him super well yet, though. He's a big part of this new friend group and I don't know how to process this and how to deal with the fact he's a cop.

I don't want to look past the fact he's a cop, but I want to stay his friend and stay in this friend group.

Any advice for dealing with this shit?

I can't talk to my therapist about it until Thursday.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago

My sister-in-law, a cop, married a cop. She also moonlights as a paramedic and fireman, but he does the investigative shit and comes home to his kids. Every now and then we hear of some bad news out their way and wait nervously until they get home.

She's a sweetheart and he's a great guy, funny as the comic actor he looks amazingly like. That's about it.

But I cheat: in Canada you don't become a Mountie because there's no other choice, but for the naive and noble desire to do good things. And they're paid low, accordingly. Maybe that attracts fewer scumbags? The ones I know from here and there are - except for the one fucking pedant - great humans.