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Aside from being contacted by a family member or maybe some sort of contact information being left in a will, how do you discover if someone you know has died?

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Ever heard of obituaries? Daily listings of people who have died.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Not everyone gets an obituary. Most of the people I know who died didn't get one, or if they did it was in a small town newspaper thousands of miles away where they grew up instead of where they lived their adult life and died.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

That's very interesting. It was my understanding that, especially now with global informati9n at least ostensibly available online, that obituaries would br obviously available.

Is that still the case nowadays?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

The internet doesn't really live up to its reputation in that regard. There's all kinds of things that never end up on the web, or if they do its so obscure you won't find it unless you know where it is already. If someone has an obituary in a random little newspaper you've never heard of in a town you might not associate with the person who died because they lived in your city for decades, and that town is on the other side of the country, even if that obituary does get indexed it's not an easy find unless they have a very unique name. I have a friend who moved less than 50 miles away a few years ago and I found out he died earlier this year, I've never been able to find his obituary. There may not even be one, and if there is it could be published in any number of different places because he lived in a lot of different places. I think most of the people I've known who have died haven't had an obituary at all, or if they did I wasn't aware of it. It costs money to get them published and I don't think it's a priority for a lot of people after someone has died. Even if they do get published they aren't always easy to find. This is in the US at least, maybe things are different in other countries.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago

Food for thought. Thanks.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

That makes me sad. Online obituaries are cheap and easy these days.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

How long ago was this? They're usually online now.