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I think the best kept secret to learn is to stop giving a shit what anyone else thinks and just be you and live how you wanna live. That's when being an adult is freeing. Stop caring about how others perceive you. Just tune the bullshit out and live your best life.
In some cases, this requires cutting toxic people out of your life, even if they were family.