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Something feels different about people's reactions to an OP in comments IMO. It is not always a thing, but more of a broad pattern. How do you personally view this? Do you see it too? Do you have some clear picture in mind as to why this difference exists? I have a few ideas, but don't want to taint your takes on the subject.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I think you're right. There's this sense that you need to strike a balance between introducing and participating in a discussion, but not monopolizing it or monologuing. I think it depends on the topic, too.

I wrote more, but just ended up saying the same thing as someone else here. Suffice to say, I try not to comment on my own posts unless I'm responding to a specific comment because I've probably already made my points in the post text.