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Chronic Illness

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A community/support group for chronically ill people. While anyone is welcome, our number one priority is keeping this a safe space for chronically ill people.

This is a support group, not a place for people to spout their opinions on disability.

Rules

  1. Be excellent to each other

  2. Absolutely no ableism. This includes harmful stereotypes: lazy/freeloaders etc

  3. No quackery. Does an up-to date major review in a big journal or a major government guideline come to the conclusion you’re claiming is fact? No? Then don’t claim it’s fact. This applies to potential treatments and disease mechanisms.

  4. No denialism or minimisation This applies challenges faced by chronically ill people.

  5. No psychosomatising psychosomatisation is a tool used by insurance companies and governments to blame physical illnesses on mental problems, and thereby saving money by not paying benefits. There is no concrete proof psychosomatic or functional disease exists with the vast majority of historical diagnoses turning out to be biomedical illnesses medicine has not discovered yet. Psychosomatics is rooted in misogyny, and consisted up until very recently of blaming women’s health complaints on “hysteria”.

Did your post/comment get removed? Before arguing with moderators consider that the goal of this community is to provide a safe space for people suffering from chronic illness. Moderation may be heavy handed at times. If you don’t like that, find or create another community that prioritises something else.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Or maybe it's about how people are so full of themselves that they believe people should know everything about you before ever meeting you.

Maybe stop being so judgemental when someone has to learn about something before treating you. You'd rather they pretend they're all knowing and treat you when in reality they don't know shit?

No one person knows everything. That expectation will only lead you to disappointment.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 4 months ago

Are you serious? The post is about doctors who don't know their jobs.

I even said in my comment that they might have to double check things, but often don't have the sense to be subtle about it.

I'm not expecting to walk up to a stranger in the street and have them know the details of my illness, I'm talking about a trained professional who is about to give me advice or medication that could kill me if they get it wrong. They should at least know the basics, and certainly shouldn't just sit there with a blank look on their face.

Read my other comments on this post. I've had a GP as my wife what to do because he hadn't kept up with his work, while my dentists knew about my illness and made sure that they were taking any precautions that they needed to.