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There was an article I read recently that said most people think saying no is way bigger a deal than it is. Like, people get all in their head about "if I say no they'll be so mad" but most of the time it's just "Ok, well hopefully you can make it next time."
Like, if someone always says no to my invites I'll probably stop inviting them if they don't otherwise signal they're interested. But most of the time people don't think about it much.