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So. Without trauma dumping, I'll simply say my dad is a bad dad. What's a father's day gift that says "you're dead to me, but I'm still doing things to keep drama at bay"?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 59 points 5 months ago (1 children)

same thing I always give: no contact

it's more of a treat for myself, really. fuck him

[โ€“] [email protected] 20 points 5 months ago (2 children)

That's the goal. There's some drama right now that makes that really hard, but within a couple years that's where we're headed.

[โ€“] [email protected] 16 points 5 months ago

best of luck. it's not easy, but it's worth it.