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[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Mother had BPD, possibly ASPD, brother had NPD. I have a tendency to attract people who suffered intense childhood trauma.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I’m picturing you going on a first date and just casually asking something like “So, childhood abuse yes or no?”

[–] Disaster 7 points 2 months ago

Often times, you don't need to ask. You can just tell.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Like another comment said, sometimes you can just sense it, but often enough they will just tell me. I have heard so many stories, frequently about sexual assault by a family member, from someone I had just met or barely knew.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

I have a similar thing. People just open up to me, but my parents aren't abusive. The worst punishment they gave us was to write a research paper on why what we had done was wrong.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

Sameee. It sounds bad but honestly I think it's done a lot in the way of building mental fortitude