I'm proud of you! I'm proud of you for creating a space to heal yourself and others. I'm proud of you for reaching out within that space to connect with other people that need the support of a father AND the fathers that want to help (me).
Your emotional vulnerability in this space shows a maturity of character that will be necessary to confront the absence you've felt from your parents. Whether you know it or not, you are doing the work! You've already taken a stand against letting your abuse ripple throughout your life and the lives of those around you. Keep it up, kid!
Shit rolls down hill? Not in your watch!
1/5, but I mistook "1st mate" for "1st officer." Still worked, but I think I watch too much Trek.