While I loved Bear and still follow the app closely, I found its development cycle way too slow. Personally, I think apple notes is a better value at this point and seems to be more feature-rich and more likely to be supported long term. My only hesitation with apple notes is data lock-in. It’s probably going to be easier to get your information out of Bear (although not as easy as if you use a flat-file storage app like Obsidian).
You definitely want to use apple notes if you’re using an iPad though. Apple notes on the iPad is amazing.
Memmy has more customization options and I've found it to work a bit better than WefWef. For me, WefWef has been very sporadic in its functionality, with it sometimes just generating errors and requiring me to refresh.