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I was responding to someone who saw no need for Wayland to exist, not advocating for everyone to use it

You should have Undetermined selected and any languages you speak. Or you can just select them all

Your posts are there and visible

My guess would be your language settings aren't setup correctly. You need to have any languages you speak selected and "Undetermined"

You won't see any posts tagged with languages you haven't enabled, and if you don't enable "Undetermined" you won't see posts in which people haven't set a language tag

but it works

For some definitions of "works"

Our biggest cities normally have bus and train. About half of them have some sort of light rail/tram equivalent too. The coverage isn't completely comprehensive, so it's possible to find suburbs that don't have great coverage, but by and large, it's pretty good. Footpaths and bicycle paths are common too. The cycling infrastructure is often gappy, so you on commutes etc, you can find yourself navigating spaces without dedicated cycling infrastructure, but generally, you can get a good portion of a cycle commute on dedicated bike spaces. The only roads without a pedestrian corridor of some sort are generally major highways

In our smaller and medium cities, the trains are normally inter city, not local, so they're not so much use as public transport, but there are generally buses, though with less coverage. Good pedestrian infrastructure even in smaller cities though. It's harder to survive in smaller cities without a car, but possible.

Once you get out of smaller cities and in to towns and villages though, it gets harder again.

Australian manages pretty good urban public transport, with a much lower density than the US

(Our rural public transport effectively doesn't exist though)

It's not a matter of "fixing" so much as things moving around. After bottom surgery, the vaginal canal sits between the prostate and the anal canal, so sensation to the prostate is reduced with anal sex. However, the prostate ends up sitting approximately where the "g spot" is in AFAB folk, and so is more easily accessed via the vaginal canal

It's not so much AMAB/AFAB as vaginal canal vs no vaginal canal. A person with a prostate and a vaginal canal doesn't get as much pressure on the prostate from anal.

"Are cars always this awful" you ask, whilst shitting on the alternative...

what’s stopping you from making one

The fact that it's discord...

Interestingly, my T levels went up post bottom surgery. I had blasted it so low it was undetectable on HRT, but post op, without blockers, I reached the low end of the cis female range (which is healthier than where I was

I'm about 6 years post bottom surgery, and it's been good and bad.

I had issues with scarring for the first 12 months that made for a really difficult time dilating, and also meant that I wasn't able to have sexual interactions the way I was hoping to have them. I battled with that for a while, then covid came along, my mental health took a dive, and I stopped dilating.

Now, I'm effectively "zero depth".

And that all sounds bad right? But it's not. My dysphoria is gone. Clothes fit me the way they're meant to. I feel comfortable naked. I am comfortable in my skin in a way I couldn't be before bottom surgery. And sure, I can't have sex the way I want, but that was already true before I had bottom surgery, so even though I didn't get everything I hoped for, I am still way better off than I was before my bottom surgery.

Can you orgasm?

Yep!

Any unique hygiene issues?

Not really. Nothing comes to mind

What are some non-obvious post-surgery things that only become apparent when everything settles back into a routine?

Farts that roll up the front are a whole different experience :P

But more seriously, I don't really remember what "before" was like anymore. It's just normal life these days.