Zaphodquixote

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[–] Zaphodquixote 13 points 1 year ago

You really gotta look up what censorship is before you use the word.

[–] Zaphodquixote 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's a lemmy.ml issue.

It seems to be intentional. Which would mean it would be wise to start migrating to other instances for your lemmy use.

[–] Zaphodquixote 10 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Frontpage is what you're looking for, but (as others have said) you might not be logged in. There was a security issue with some instances, and several chose to log everyone out as part of the process of fixing/mitigating the issue. So you may not be logged in currently.

[–] Zaphodquixote 2 points 1 year ago
[–] Zaphodquixote 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You gotta lean into it.

You don't scrub their back and otherwise just stand/sit there.

You bathe your partner while they bathe you. Yes, including the "dirty" bits. Yeah, you may need to go back and get spots that get missed because you can only get so good when going by feel until you have a lot of practice, but it isn't that difficult; I was giving baths to elderly patients when I was 17, and teenagers are all idiots (I was no exception).

Seriously, just lather up the scrubber, washcloth, or whatever y'all use, and wash them. ENJOY that shit! You're rubbing your sexy, wet, and loving partner. You very to touch every inch of them, as you scrub and rinse. For delicate places, you use your hands and gentle pressure (unless they like a harder scrubbing, but soap and genitalia isn't a good combination. Yes, really, I washed people for a living, their skin health was my responsibility. You don't need soap on your junk to get it clean, and most soap is too harsh for genital use).

And, yes, that also means you get in that crack and wash their butthole. Just get in there and have some fun with it!

If you're with someone, and you can't have fun when you shower together, there's something fundamentally broken in the relationship that needs working on. It's about intimacy, spending time taking care of each other, and enjoying each other's bodies. It doesn't have to be sexual, though there's nothing wrong with it being so.

The problem with bathing together is usually that most showers aren't built where both parties can be under the water at the same time. This can leave one person cold. But, if you're touching and scrubbing the person that isn't under the water, theft aren't likely to get very cold. And they possibly won't even notice if they did.

Even if it's every day, or you're just doing a fast shower, it's entirely possible to make it work and not be an impediment to getting clean and getting out.

[–] Zaphodquixote 4 points 1 year ago

Ppl put raisins on their pb sandwiches, and grape jelly. There's also apples, pear, slices of cheese, meats, pickles, and marshmallows. But we draw the line at grapes.

[–] Zaphodquixote 65 points 1 year ago (5 children)

No, you cannot complain about complainers complaining about complainers complaining. That's too far!

[–] Zaphodquixote 2 points 1 year ago

Much appreciated :)

[–] Zaphodquixote 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Where is it though? I haven't seen it, and I just updated.

[–] Zaphodquixote 7 points 1 year ago

Nice try! But we all know Ohio is just a fake that our reptilian overlords are using to get us all to think that there's somewhere worse we could live so that we don't rise up against them.

Pfft, next, you'll be telling us that Alabama is real.

[–] Zaphodquixote 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Nah, bitwarden is just that common as a choice. Literally everyone I know offline that uses a password manager uses it.

I'm not saying there isn't astroturfing involved overall, but it is a very popular service, so don't be surprised when there's plenty of real people too lol

Tbh, it's also the easiest imo. I even got my mom using it because it took five minutes to get going, and hasn't given her a single hassle.

[–] Zaphodquixote 5 points 1 year ago

Connect is awesome.

If it ever gets multi-column for tablet use, it would totally dominate for me. That's the major feature I miss from slide and sync.

Well, that and the tabbed viewing from slide, where you can swipe through your ordered subscriptions from the top of the app. But that's really only useful once you have the ability to order your subscriptions at all.

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