Smathy

joined 1 year ago
[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Childbirth.

I can't watch scenes in movies, tv, mentions in books/papers, friends talking about it etc. I can't do it.

My daughter's birth in 2020 was all kinds of traumatic and I avoid the topic at all costs.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I have definitely told guys at the end of a date that I "want to see them again" while having no intention of seeing them again. It's a safety thing. IME guys can Jekyll and Hyde pretty hard when being rejected.

I know it can hurt feelings, but when it comes down to it, my safety > your feelings

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That looks great! Did you make the pattern yourself?