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Searching for friends online isn't going to fix the fact that you're a nihilistic sad-sack whose interactions with people are always fundamentally unpleasant. Nobody wants to hang around someone who only says sad shit and no-one wants to be asked for advice then have their ideas shit on. That's why so many depressed people turn into comedians, if you're gonna say awful shit you at least need to wrap that turd up in some party paper and put a bow on top.

This isn't even me telling you not to look online; that's actually completely fine. It just won't actually fix the problem because your problem isn't the format, it's your attitude. This is blunt as shit but I worry if I state it less than completely explicitly you'll gloss over it, and I wouldn't say it at all if I didn't think it was something you could change about yourself.

Aaaaand you ignored the part of my argument where it's still a marginal improvement for that population (who already can't afford it even with insurance). The other commenter is right, you're cherrypicking and arguing in bad faith. I've no patience for sealions. Bye.

They probably don't consider him in the same class as them at all. I wonder if he wasn't even a 1%-er, maybe more like a 2-3%-er. If you do literally anything other than laying in your money pile eating and shitting and having your mouth and ass wiped with $100 bills you're probably a pleb to them.

Tbh as a nurse even just directly accepting pay from patients would be a huge improvement in the Healthcare system. Even having the patient directly pay the hospital then the hospital pays me would be a big improvement over health insurance companies. The entire purpose of a middleman is to make things more convenient and yet they've figured out how to make more money the less convenient it is to receive care because they get their premium either way, and the more they refuse to do the more they get to keep. They're literally leeches that contribute nothing beneficial to the process.

A big reason we have stuff like $100 bandaids is because of a longstandimg health insurance tradition of the Healthcare insurance companies insisting that the hospitals charge exorbitant prices to the uninsured so that they can offer their customers "discounts." It's the same marketing strategy as how mattress stores are always having a sale. The mattress was always worth $400, they just added the ~~$800~~ next to it to make that $400 look better. After years and years of the insurance companies "negotiating" for more money off the price we have hospitals charging $100 to put a baby on its mothers chest after birth, then that price is magically "negotiated" down to $1 which the insurance company so graciously deigns to pay.

Some people still wouldn't be able to pay which is why we really need to move towards a government provided fund that covers at least the basics for everyone, but for most people not having to pay $500 for a bandaid and only having to pay $1-2k for a major surgery would be doable, especially if they're not also paying $300 monthly and $3.6k yearly for "insurance" that will still try to get the anasthaesia cut off mid surgery. And it would make mutual aid and charitable funding a much more realistic possibility for those who can't afford it.

So anyway yeah we actually should just completely abolish the health insurance industry. It wouldn't fix everything but it would actually be a huge improvement just by cutting out the middleman and by making a negotiation that was already unfair to begin with at least more open / honest.

Oh I've read his book he's great. I see a lot of people here debating his morality but the important aspect of his book is that he describes the actual tactics in detail.

Also didn't NY State abolish the death penalty? Or can he be charged with a federal crime to override that?

Every time I hear the words "qualified immunity" I think about this:

I was first trained in acute psychiatry years ago to never ever in forever restrain people face down. Me and my highschool diploma were sitting in a side room in a state hospital for I shit you not a two. week. crash course in inpatient psychiatry after which they dumped me out on the unit to work with criminally insane men for two years. And in my four hour restraint class they hammered into us to never restrain people face down.

I remember seeing two men fighting and I just figured I'd grab one and somebody else would grab the other and we'd pull and I remember looking over my guy's shoulder and seeing the other guy gnawing on his face and then there's a hole in my memory (likely about 60 seconds; it happens with adrenaline) and the next thing I remember I guess we had all fallen and I was laying on top of the guy I grabbed and I shit you not the very first thought in my head was "oh shit, he's face down I need to get off him" and I slid to the side and just kept a hand hovering over his shoulders in case he tried to pop up and... idk, bite my face off or something. I didn't even know who it was until he looked back at me. But they had hammered that one thing into my head that hard that I didn't know what the fuck this guy was gonna do and the first thought in my head was still to get off him.

So when I saw all these news stories and all this footage of the cops holding people facedown until they asphyxiate I started asking around. I don't work with cops in the sense that they're my coworkers but I do run into them a lot dropping off involuntary holds. So I started asking about how they're trained to restrain people and if they have any training on how to protect people's airways. And it turns out they do, actually. Everybody I asked pretty universally told me they're trained to get the cuffs on then immediately turn them on their side. It's not super advanced, in fact it's super basic. Basic in the sense that you could've taught it to a highschool graduate in under two weeks.

So it's funny you mention not being trained for something because actually yeah they are trained to not do things that kill people and yet-

I didn't even know the second definition existed at all. Ty for sharing.

I have a sneaking suspicion that a lot of it is legal, and most of the borderline cases I personally encountered were years ago when I worked for the state. It was less prevalent when I worked for a major university hospital but they had really good HR that were offsite (not buddies with department managers) and well trained in the legal aspects so whatever nonsense they were pulling was always above board. The most egregious ones though, and the ones you'll read about when they make the news, are the nursing homes, which is work I've never had the stomach to do. Now I'm working in a small inner-city hospital, so most of their staff abuse is just against local poor people who aren't going to find anywhere that pays more.

It's similar in nursing. They keep bringing over nurses from the Philippines, Nigeria, Ghana, and Jamaica (to keep the list short) and they're great coworkers but a lot of their contracts would actually count as human trafficking on the same questionnaires our ERs use to screen patients. They're working in conditions that were misrepresented or straight up lied about with monetary and legal penalties for breaking the contract such as tens of thousands of dollars or loss of their green card.

The employers are doing this to get employees who will be too afraid to report unsafe working conditions for both them and their patients. In psych I see a lot of international nurses who did not realize how utterly violent the average US homeless substance abusing psych patient can get (well except for a few who did high acuity psych back overseas; we had a Nigerian coming from forensics who knew what was up). A lot of them come from other specialties like onc or renal and wind up in psych because it's an easy in and wind up waaay out of their depth with no easy way out.

The fact that this abuse exists to depress my wages at the expense of everyone involved (them, me, AND the patients) is just... Idk. I almost want out but it's what I'm most skilled at and I can't imagine doing any other kind of work but the conditions and pay have just steadily worsened the longer I work.

I don't personally have the emotional resiliency to own a gun right now but I'm VERY pro gun. We can't be letting the conservatives have all of them that's terrifying.

Oh don't worry I'm trans / bi in the ~*wrong*~ ~*way*~ too. They just wanna be mad and will find a reason.