Sounds like a bit of both; I don't believe she's lying to you though.
this post was submitted on 08 Jul 2023
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My girlfriend said when I washed a bowl earlier it was the sexiest thing she's ever seen.
Did she attempt to jump your bones?
Okay let’s play the uno reverse card: if she would do something to ease your life, would you find this hot ?
Start scrubbing the floor and we will find out
Everything is a ploy. But that's ok, because that means it is a thing. Don't rock the boat. Be happy and do more chores!
It could be, but from my personal experience, nothing sexier than a person who can take care of shit that needs to be taken care of. You don't know how many men don't do this and how many women enable it by tolerating it. It's a complete turn off when I find out a dude can't and expects me to pick up the slack
Does she act on your appearance as a more attractive mate when the chores are done? If so, then it doesn't matter if it's real or a ruse. Win-win, literally.
Yes but it doesn't hurt to play that game.
It could be because the people in her life (especially the masculine figures) aren’t the type to actually do chores without the initial request/push by another person. It’s some kind of shock and it could be seen as an attractive trait. Same feeling I got when I entered a healthy relationship with someone who’s not a slob. Doing chores is bare minimum though
It's a ploy! Run! RUN AWAY!
/J
I think the answer is just yes
Yea. I think woman are wired to be more attracted to the actual qualities of a man and ability to provide over the aesthetic appeal, but both are good obviously. I'm not a women, but have had this conversation with my partner. So I'm an expert (;
Women are just better than men in a practical sense lol. I'm just a dumb man. But me do chores, me man, me get laid.
Start doing chores in The Sims and in real life. Compare.
it could be a mix of both but i think some people are into it because on itch there is a game called "house chores" but i guess it depends on the person.
Yep, just like I tell my wife I love work (I can watch hours at it being performed).
The best way to show appreciation of you girlfriend/wife is helping with chores. (And thus limiting her time doing them, which results in more time together, win-win ;) )