this post was submitted on 09 Sep 2023
74 points (91.1% liked)

Asklemmy

43940 readers
405 users here now

A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions

Search asklemmy 🔍

If your post meets the following criteria, it's welcome here!

  1. Open-ended question
  2. Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other.
  3. Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
  4. Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members
  5. An actual topic of discussion

Looking for support?

Looking for a community?

~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_[email protected]~

founded 5 years ago
MODERATORS
 

All religions have it's own myths, own stories, own set of values. And these are/were good stories, I mean, even though they are not true, they are certainly interesting. You won't feel bored by it.

Harry Potter has the same effect on people, like, why should I take Harry Potter seriously, why do I care what happens after Dumbledore dances with Snape (won't give actual spoilers :')

I mean, it doesn't make sense to me. Why do I care so much about a soap opera that I am watching. Harry Potter is the product of just one brilliant woman's imagination. It has no real value on my life. I have no real motivation to read that other than the fact that I like it and I want to know. Harry Potter is somewhat irrelevant to my life, than why does it or any other good story capture our imagination?

Why do I care what the next season of House M.D. entails? Why? What should I care if he dies or lives? Why :')?

all 31 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] [email protected] 38 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm not a sociologist, but it's worth noting that for many thousands of years, humans passed on knowledge by story telling. If you had zero interest in listening to elders telling stories, you were less likely to learn important stuff, and so less likely to survive. It seems likely that we're naturally selected to be interested in stories.

But, in the same way that craving sweets used to drive people to eat fruit, but now that same urge drives us to eat candy, our inclination to listen to stories gets people to watch soap operas or marvel movies, which isn't exactly improving our chance of survival.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

thank you! that makes sense

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

No it doesn’t. Evolution is an explanation for species to adjust to the environment . This comment says “the environment was stories”. But how our ancestors developed the habit of story telling in the first place is still unexplained with this little piece of fiction.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But that doesn’t explain why stories were the form to convey information in the first place.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

It sort of does. Groups who told stories and listened to stories survived better than other groups. It doesn't matter that there might have been another way to pass on information, that one worked and helped the group thrive. Lots of different animals solve the same issue in different ways - evolution doesn't care.

[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Sharing, and believing in, fictions is how distilled units of information are efficiently passed down generations and is one of the bedrocks of our development as a species. This is what allows us to have laws and corporations and agreeing to drive on particular side of the road.

Yuval Noah Harari covers this more eloquently in his book Sapiens. You would definitely dig the relevant chapters.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Yuval Noah Harari covers this more eloquently in his book Sapiens.

time to read it again I think. It is a wonderful book, but I dont remember reading about this particular topic in enough detail. Thank you for your comment

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You are more than welcome! The chapter is called Unification of Humankind for anyone else interested, here is a little excerpt:

“Myths and fictions accustomed people, nearly from the moment of birth, to think in certain ways, to behave in accordance with certain standards, to want certain things, and to observe certain rules. They thereby created artificial instincts that enabled millions of strangers to cooperate effectively. This network of artificial instincts is called ‘culture’.”

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

time to read it again I think. It is a wonderful book, but I dont remember reading about this particular topic in enough detail. Thank you for your comment

haha, thank you again!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Seems like there’s a bunch of Sapiens books. Which book and which chapters were you thinking of?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

It's literally Sapiens, the first book. The chapter is called the Unification of Humankind, from the quick look I had online.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Humans have brains and are social creatures. Brains love processing information. Learn from things that happen to people around you or even fictional ones. Are curious and want to connect information. Also we're built to empathize with others to be able to form groups/a society. We will even empathize with fictional characters and inanimate objects that have big eyes and a mouth.

Evolution gave that to us. We wouldn't have survived as a species if we had cared zero what happened to our neighbours. A story about Harry Potter is probably on the same level for our brains.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Beautiful explanation. I just learned something else. Our brain can't learn and listen to everything, so if you listen to stories from the point of view of a certain ideology or person, the more you feel justified to defend that person as long as that person is within rational limits of actions.

You get what I am trying to say, I think this is a factor in why we are so polarized today. We are empathizing with and listening to people who have a particular bent of ideology more and more and since our brains don't really like contradictions, the more we listen to one kind of stories, we can't listen to the other kind of stories, what do you think?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I'm not so sure with the contradictions. People love being hypocrites. I've seen otherwise very intelligent and educated people believe in hocus pocus like homeopathy but adhere to scientific results in other aspects and be happy with both. Religion is just contradictions on steroids...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

But usually hypocrites don't see themselves as such. They think they are behaving rationally, and lie to themselves as to not see the contradiction.

We'd rather discount new information than confront our biases.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I agree with you completely here. Although I too am not sure about contradictions. I think I was going for the word coherence here.

Religion is just contradictions on steroids…

This is so true. I mean, for something which is holy, our fingerprints are all over it and it shows.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

We've been telling stories for as long as we've been talking. They're knowledge, history, dream and memory.

stories are us, they're how we teach our children what to believe, how to live, who to trust. And then we fucked it with the printing press and advertising and cinema and consumerist attachment lol

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Adding to consumerist attachment, these days stories are also used as an escapism tool. From a fatalistic point of view, you can lose yourself in a movie for a little while, binge a series, read a book and be somewhere totally different than where you are. You can believe that for a while if the story is good enough.

There’s also the appeal of “living vicariously” through a story. I tend to enjoy stories with more focus on characters and their development, and inevitably get invested in them from the simple connection of being human. I can see the ugly side of myself within flawed characters, I can learn lessons from the mistakes of others, I can take comfort in certain emotional developments and despair in others. Stories provide a safe place to explore different points of view, ideas, emotions, and events, especially ones people don’t talk about day to day or ones that are darker than your every day life.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

We tell ourselves stories about our own actions, choices and beliefs (internally). We desperately want to believe that our own behavior is consistent and coherent. Fitting our behavior into a narrative helps us maintain this illusion ("I did Y thing because X thing happened to me, and then Z thing happened because I did Y").

We tend to assume that cause-and-effect relationships are true and real, that we perceive causes and effects correctly, that we associate causes with effects accurately, and that we perceive all causes and effects that are relevant. These assumptions give us a narrative structure through which we make sense of our own behavior... though they are about as reliable as any of our other assumptions.

Anyway, the upshot is that framing the actions, choices and beliefs of others into a story helps us to understand and empathize with them (or condemn and villify them). The stories are a construct formed mostly from confirmation bias, but we struggle to make sense of reality without them.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Under appreciated comment. Thank you very much!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

Empathy and projection.

You can understand how they feel, and by doing so, you can place yourself in their situation.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The world is complicated and difficult to navigate. Stories usually give you a simplified world where it's easier to understand and relate to. Just think of most religious stories and myths, they exist to explain something unexplainable (how the world was created) or how to behave in a society (cautionary tales and parabolas)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

how to behave in a society (cautionary tales and parabolas)

I find the best cautionary tales are quadratic

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I would say the simple answer is in why we still teach "story problems" in math.

The "story" of the math problem gives us a way to contextualize knowledge in how it can be applied to real life.

Most stories impart social knowledge, not math knowledge. Stories are primarily about relationships and how to (or how not to) navigate them.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

In philosophy, what you're asking about is called the paradox of fiction.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

thank you very much! This is one of the most helpful comments here

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Harry Potter is the product of just one ~~brilliant~~ barely literate woman’s imagination.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

she's good though! I don't know about her education but after all this, I am sure it doesn't matter. Why do you say barely literate, I don't think I found anything wrong with the books

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Her writing is awful, wooden, and stilted. Her dialogue is painful. Her characters are boring at best and outright racist stereotypes at worst.

She either doesn’t know how to write skillfully or chooses not to. I figured the former was more charitable.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Harry Potter is a fucking Tory wet dream of a story.