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A few I like;

Lutalica: The part of your identity that doesnt fit into categories. Des Vu: The awareness that the current moment will become a memory. PΓ’ro: The feeling that everything you do is wrong. Moment of tangency: A glimpse of what might've been.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Sharting, feeling like I have to fart but actually shitting my pants

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ureka moments are fun. I also love fleeting moments of "being on the same page" with strangers that you will never meet again.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Mhm, both of those. On the rare occasion I meet someone whose train of thought seems to be perfectly in sync with mine.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think sonder is pretty neat, even if it seems a bit odd

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Yessss I was gonna mention that too bit didnt wanna make too long a list!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Take off in a jet. I giggle like a little girl every time.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I count how long it takes from standstill until in the air, every time. I don't even remember why, I think it's just exciting because planes are cool.

FYI it's 25-30 seconds almost every plane I've been on.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Feel like giddish kid every time, like the beginning of an adventure.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I just like the rush of being jammed back into the seat for take off

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

The most fascinating? Being horny
My dick has led me to places I normally wouldn't go even with a gun
And if that's not fascinating, then Idk what it is

[–] hoshikarakitaridia 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Longing. It's fascinating to me how crushing that feeling can be, even though it's not negative or even heavy in itself.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Longing for what you can never have, alas

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

fascination I suppose

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Awe is my fave. Specifically the awe I feel when I look up at the sky on a clear night and see lots of stars.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

That mood of calm, privacy, and sone unease from liminal spaces. Almost the feel being in the woods.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Well you know how the germans always have a word for an obscure feeling, google Waldeseinsamkeit.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

It's the Germans every time.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I’m not sure what to call it, but just being totally enmeshed in a project where I become hyper-focused on building something, creating a design, solving a problem or fixing something, it just sort of blots everything else out. Consumed? Obsessed? I can’t stop until I’ve done the thing, but afterwards it kind of sucks. I’m just coming off that now and feel aimless, and I’m like, β€œOk, well now what do I do with myself?” It’s not as simple as just finding something new, I have to be personally interested in the thing.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I think thats called a post project slump. The feeling of emptiness after having been in a state of hyperfocus.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I love that feeling, if I get it while creating, or building something. If I'm successful, i.e. the result matches my expectations, the sense of accomplishment and pride negates the feeling of emptiness you speak of.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Post flow clarity.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Im 16 and for past 3 years my parents give me feeling "paro" :(.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Better than parvo, I guess. That's how I first read it. Need coffee.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Ambivalence. Reminds me that not everything's black and white. Also makes me think of Red Dwarf. Lol.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

When you're angry and on the verge of tears; sounds basic, maybe, but it feels so overwhelming when you're both shaking with anger and at the same time trying to hold in your sadness. Makes you want to both yell at something and curl into a ball and disappear. It's a double negative, which makes it more powerful. I'm not an angry or short-tempered person, so whenever this happens to me I feel so lost and confused with what to do.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Nostalgia, when it hits for things that I was never a part of.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oh god yes. Watching smth like stranger things and having nostalgia for 80s America. A time I wasnt alive and a place Ive never been.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

For me it was "That 70's Show," watched the shit outta that.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Yesss sitcoms always do it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Nostalgia. Always so bittersweet and full of wistfulness. Combined with the (newly learnt for me) des vu, knowing that I will inevitably feel those emotions for the time I'm in now. And then again for moments that don't even exist yet.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Rather specific and I don't know if it has a name, I'd just call it Dread:

The feeling when imagining a reality that theoretically might have been possible, specifically one with an aspect that is in every way horrible. I'm not talking about a dystopian society like often found in media. Im talking about a next level of Dread in every aspect.

The only real example for this is the Ordensstaat Burgrund from a Hearts of Iron 4 Modification called The New order. The so called Ordensstaat Burgrund is a "nation" that was established in the remains of France after the Nazis won. Every sentence written about it makes it a miserable place. The nation exists only to fuel the SS under the lead of Heinrich Himmler.

In the game, there is a phrase along the lines of "The sun never sets over burgundy, it is too afraid.". It is so bad, if the Nazis "win" against them, it might be considered a good ending.

I cannot express with words what feeling this whole thing produces. It is a horrible masterpiece of unexpected quality.

This random site explains some context if you're interested.

Also worth a note: their music's team is amazing. The Burgundian Lullaby is probably the most atmospheric piece of Music I know.

Disclaimer: National Socialism is bad, horrible, and an unspeakable act against humanity.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

There’s an awful (complimentary) short story by Clive barker called Dread.

I’m an incredibly squeamish and anxious person who’s especially sensitive *** I don’t know how spoilers work here, but they show up wrong when I do it through my app, so it’s at the end*** and I read that on what I did not realize was a sarcastic recommendation. It was a very bad call for me, but is super effective

spoilerto the idea of eating animals (when I ate meat, I was okay with chicken nuggets, but could never eat a chicken wing, because it’s much more obviously an animal) or my food being contaminated by insects

[–] Kerfuffle 1 points 1 year ago

Could a feeling or emotion be more fascinating than fascination?