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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Being a man. Fucking gross.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I wish I could upvote this more than once.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

With multiple accounts anything is possible!

Don't try with only one account that just removes the upvote.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Getting married...

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago

Date a dumb man, no matter how attractive he was.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Fix my own car.

I tried changing my own oil, couldn't get the drain plug loose, was so frustrated. Another time I had a coolant leak and need to swap out a hose, it was winter, I hurt my hands, snapped some plastic part, and cried.

I don't work on my own cars now.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm amazed you even tried! I can barely put air in my tyres

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

I really did try lol

I like old cars, as a broke person, the only way it makes sense to have one is if you know how to work on it yourself.

I've a greater understanding why most mechanics hate themselves lol

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Being in a straight appearing relationship with a guy. I felt like my queerness was completely lost, and I hated the assumptions that people started making about me and the relationship.

Only openly queer relationships for me thank you!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

As I went from visibly trans to passing, my relationship with my partner went from an obviously queer one to what most people now assume is a platonic friendship between two cis women.

I personally feel like I'm in a more queer relationship now, but the queerness disappears to others due to heteronormative eyes. It does not seem to make a difference that we hold hands in public, that I engage in touch and other PDA.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Waltzers. for those who don't know it's a ride involving a sloping spinning platform with these spinning cars. my dad made me ride it when I was a kid. big mistake I threw up 😂

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I agree... how do you cope financially though?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There are companies with a 35 hour work week.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 21 hours ago

of loooveee

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

Having fun.

I tried having fun once, but I didn't like it. So now I'm against it.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Harvesting porcupine quills.

What a nightmare. I'm amazed I didn't get Porcupine aids... Or maybe I did...

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Why are porcupine quills used for? Why would you want to harvest them? Or is this a turn of phrase I'm taking wayy to literally?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Not often used now, but they are plucked, cleaned and often dyed, then woven into baskets or as trim for clothing/hats. The guard hairs are also used for ceremonial head dresses.

So no, sadly, not a turn of phrase. I literally had my hands in a soapy bath of porcupine quills and shit, getting stabbed endlessly as I tried to clean them. I got maybe 40-50. They are in a jar to remind me of my folly.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago
[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Don't talk to me about life!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

trying to correctly spell words