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It's a short book.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I read this on the beach in Cuba a number of years ago. I felt it was appropriate.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago

That does sound perfect.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Make sure you write an esé when you finish.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago

Okay here's my ese.

SpoilerFisherman is old.

Big fish is big.

Old man is smart.

Big fish is dead.

Old man is resolute.

Big fish is gone.

Old man is survived.

Big fish was big.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

I'll try but I can't promise anything.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Go get dressed up like a classy grandpa, and then go read it by the biggest body of water you have next to you

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

Sunhat and pipe!!!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I think I have a fishing hat somewhere. Does a cat water bowl count? That's really the best I can do.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago

can you believe what happened with the fish

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I also read this one in one day the first time I read it. If you enjoy Hemingway, I'd definitely recommend For Whom The Bell Tolls or The Sun Also Rises; but his short fiction is also some of best.

If you don't like Hemingway, I'd probably recommend other authors that aren't him, some of whom I could name.

Basically, reading is awesome.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I have For Whom the Bell Tolls and tried reading it a while back but I could only get about halfway through before I stopped.

At the time I wasn't necessarily in a reading mood so I think it was more that than anything. I hear The Sun Also Rises is more popular so I might give that a try later in the year.

I have East of Eden by Steinbeck on my shelf that I've been wanting to read. That's probably the next fiction that I'll read.

Edit: I was thinking of A Farewell to Arms not The Sun Also Rises.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I would love to read this book too. But this is not the dull_men_with_adhd_club so sitting and reading is outside my current skillset.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Have you tried walking and reading?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

This sounds both intriguing and terrifyingly dangerous at the same time.

Edit: ooh.. ooh… a treadmill. But I don’t have a treadmill. I have a standing desk at work. Maybe I could get them to buy something like this: https://www.walkingpad.com/products/walkingpad-a1-pro-foldable-treadmill

And now I’m down another rabbit hole. Told you I have ADHD.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

Maybe taking something with stimulants in it, like coffee? Or having some brown/white/green/pink noise audio files playing?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

Fidget spinner while reading?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Terrible book. It's what turned me off of Hemingway, and made me wonder what people see in his writing.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Exactly the opposite for me!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago

I liked it.

[–] DoctorWhookah 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I saw this film when I was a kid and really enjoyed it. I should read the book.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

Never knew it was a movie too. Maybe I'll watch it after I finish this book.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Nice! Just briefly for anyone curious, it’s a short story with themes of human perseverance, being old but maintaining fierce tenacity, plus battling vs. nature whilst having lots of respect for it, all in Hemingway’s voice.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago

I enjoyed it and am glad to have read it.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago