Oh my Lord.
I (19m), really just do not like when people say this.
I have genuinely been ruined for so fucking long because of the toxic relationships I was in, and it is frustrating to see people my age want them just so they can say that they had them or because they want the "fan fiction" version of a toxic relationship that is literally just a normal ass relationship with either
A) An abuser or
B) Someone possessive of them
Any person that has been in a toxic relationship and has been destroyed by one knows damn well they never want to be in another one ever again.