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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

All these influencers not posting because of the horrible fires in LA is interesting. They aren’t posting because they know sharing their content (it should be called emptiness) is garbage with something so heart breaking happening. But….its always been garbage, anyone that adds value into the world hasn’t gone dark for the past few days. Nurses are still showing up, teachers, fire fighters, public officials, construction workers, news outlets, cooks, clothing stores….this list could go on & on, you get it…we are still doing our jobs because they add something into our communities. Sarah - just empty, blank.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (4 children)

What is with her always trying to get cats adopted? She’s always on some odd random crusade. Why doesn’t she actually go volunteer at the humane society and get her hands dirty instead of just walking around petsmart and making essentially an ad with her kid playing with the cats.

Like as a cat lover I want cats to have their forever home too, but it’s just such a weird random crusade for her when she doesn’t even seem to care about her own cat.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

She said that every time she mentions a cat, they get adopted. So she thinks it's all her doing and she's magical. She's really delusional. I agree. I'm glad the cats are getting adopted, but I doubt it's all because of her.. surely, it can't be the tireless work of the volunteers and the organization.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago

The “I can cook Chili” footage is pretty quick but I can barely see any beans and what looks like carrot and mushrooms??

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

It always amazes me how calculated and predictable she is. Like I 100% knew she’d go quiet once she got back from LA because she’s just SO obvious. She thinks going quiet means she’s like reflecting and caring when really she’s just scared of backlash because of how foolish and selfish she is. Sharing a couple videos of L to soften your followers won’t make it better.

And now she’s gonna be posting from Disney all joyful because she’s in her happy place and it saves her after the trauma of being in LA and having to flee even though she didn’t need to go there at all. While people in LA are suffering and losing their homes, she got to fly back to a newly renovated house with another trip right on the horizon. She sucks and I hope she feels shame (even though she never seems to and nobody calls her on it either).

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I called her tone deaf on one of her stories from one of her 47648 trips to Disney and boy did she clap back. Her entitlement is ASTOUNDING!!! She really believes that she’s self made and that she went from being a broke single mom to changing the world.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago

She's always had it easy. She makes me ill.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I think this trip to Disney...again....is really going to be her downfall. No one is cheering her on and excited to watch yet another trip to Disney with all her friends...eating dole whip. Seriously.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

So quiet. Is she trying to get messages rolling in from her concerned fans? Or did her dumb ass fly into LA while it’s on fire and is trying to hide her stupidity?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 weeks ago

I can see it now, that dumb clueless face talking into her phone. Guess who didn't check the weather?!?!?!? 🤔🤪 We don't see news on social media in Canada, how was I supposed to know?!?!?

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 weeks ago (8 children)

Her saviour complex took over of course. Probably trying to cover the shame of being so oblivious at first 😂

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 weeks ago

You guessed correctly! No surprise - her selfishness and stupidity are that predictable!

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Is this family ever not watching Wicked???? Good lord it’s insufferable. How many videos do we need of lemon singing and twirling to that movie. She’s gonna be so lost when she does go to school and it isn’t all disney movies and tv all day.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (6 children)

I haven’t followed TBP on Instagram for a while now but I have been unfortunately curious about her content since she returned home from Los Angeles. That video of L dancing in the window, in that same Frozen dress from yesterday’s video, makes me so sad for her. I hope it’s a video from yesterday? or she is back in that same dress singing the same songs. I know she’s happy, but I really hope they expand this little sweetie’s horizons!

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

Is this family ever not sitting on the sofa? I get having relaxing time (I love relaxing and sitting lol) but they don’t do much to require needing valuable time to relax lol. Like they never seem to go for walks, take L to do things or go do anything errands wise that isn’t the mall for no reason.

Their whole life seems to just be L twirling around the living room infront of the always on tv.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Literally. There’s SO many things they can take this kid to do. They have the money and the time, they just won’t. Even things that don’t cost money. Take her sledding. Make a snowman. Community ice rink. Walk in the arboretum. Or since they have all the money: Funvilla. Art factory. Peekaboo. Tiny town. Bowling. Swimming. Butterfly conservatory. Zoo. Aquarium. Museum. They are literally the laziest people in the world.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

Ice skating is a good one especially this time of year, legit never have seen them take her skating and I’m sure she’d enjoy it too but I get the sense she’d enjoy a lot of things and her parents shield her from it all. They’re the LAZIEST parents I’ve ever seen. I can’t even call out just Sarah, it’s Shane too. I get the sense Sarah is embarrassed in public but she’s brought it on herself by being a fraud online 🤷🏻‍♀️

I’m going to be a first time parent in April and they’re showing me how NOT to be with my kid. I’m already looking forward to taking her for walks and to the library and to the park, etc.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago

Interesting point about Sarah not liking being in public out and about in her community.

It’s not unusual for influencers to be very different people in public. I know some that are so quiet and reserved compared to their IG personas. The added layer here though is all of her filtering. In public people will see her as her actual self which doesn’t match her filtered self and the whole charade falls apart. Her entire sales pitch is body positivity and a groundswell of regular people calling that out because of crossing paths with her would end the gravy train.

People going to her speaking events,etc have drank the kool-aid, they’re safe for her to be around. Casual ‘Bird-watchers’, not so much.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yep! When she’s not jet setting across the globe on free trips she’s sitting her lazy ass on the couch filming her poor sheltered daughter sing Disney songs. That poor poor kid man

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I get such second-hand embarrassment seeing Shane always lounging and never doing anything. I guess I'm just used to the always-present 'get up and go' mentality the dads in my family have always had, but like, don't you have anything you need to do around the house, for your family, anything? I have never seen a father sit down on the couch/on his phone as much as I have this man

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

They really do live a life of leisure. My fiancé works long hours all week and could easily just sit his ass on the sofa all weekend bc he earned it but no he always finds a chore or two to do, goes for walks, we do errands, etc. These two seem to have NOTHING to do ever. He definitely doesn’t scream “man of the house” no matter how much she’d love to claim otherwise because he wears a battery daddy shirt 🙄

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Can you imagine paying to hear these people speak? Unreal!

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (4 children)

Another day another freebie 🙄 “I really love what she stands for” ????? Which is what exactly…. Sitting her fucking lazy ass down on the couch every day she’s not jetting across the globe on free trips? Filtering and editing every picture of herself yet pumping out her platform of “love yourself”?? People, wake the fuck up. Stop gifting her shit!!!!!

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Any excuse to take a picture of herself.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Wow...riveting stuff Birdshit. Another peace sign selfie.....incredible thumbs up

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Car selfie, Bathroom in underwear, Videos from couch, Shared link from bedroom, Homesense, Simply wonderful, wash, rinse, repeat until the end of time. Two slices of boring white bread with very little in between.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

The constant child content twirling around or using the stupid filters must be desperation.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago

She’s got at least two syringes in that upper lip

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago

Lmao she wears the same earrings every single day and then a jewelry maker talks about her so she has to change them out. “I wore these yesterday!” 🙄

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

While Bird F’s Off on another plane, bestie is at home emotional over registering her kids for jk. I have not heard bird mention school at all for 🍋

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 weeks ago

Who wants to bet that she won’t enroll L in school and Nana K will “homeschool”

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago

Day three for L in that princess dress. I love after saying I hope they broaden her horizons she shows her with a guitar today, lol

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