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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 day ago

I'm not sure what you're talking about. I love talking about politics. Oh wait, I think I'm that family member.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

A sister that is a traditional conservative and brother that is a centrist liberal, they argue in talking points and both of their solutions are usually unrealistic garbage. It's a big family though so most just leave the room when they get going.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago (3 children)
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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Most of them since we don't do thanksgiving where I'm from

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago

None. We have made politics a taboo subject at dinner. We know we don’t agree (older generations vs younger) and would rather converse about things we enjoy like the grandkids etc.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

My uncle potentially, he may not bring it up (which would be nice) but still on edge about the potential of an argument. He's been dragging down my kid cousin to be just like him too. Even if there was an argument I know I'm not going to have any backup from the rest of my family as they're all leaning the same way, they're just more softly spoken and worried about 'civility' and wouldn't say the worst of it out loud.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago

None, I am intentionally not seeing my family for Thanksgiving.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Even my corrupted parents aren't planning on a Thanksgiving visit because of how toxic the family is.

The writing is on the wall.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Avoiding most family this year, spending it with those I'm close with instead.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

We're going out of town so our DIL doesn't have to make up an excuse for not spending it with her fam.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

I have thanksgiving with only my wife and kids.

Then I have Friendsgiving, with a few friends and their family.

I haven't seen my family in years except for video calls. Same for my kids, and wife and kids. Not that I dislike them. Or would be opposed to them staying in the same town.

My family members are toxic, and after I moved, we never bothered.

I think more people should do that.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago
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