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Looks like my account was banned/restricted for the above interaction, have already sent the mods on world an email asking if they'd be willing to reverse that. Had an episode of psychosis a few months ago where I did say some offensive stuff, (understandably) got a 3 month ban on .lol for that, so could see my account having been flagged.

I uh, I don’t think it’s reasonable to expect people to check others profiles to ensure we are correctly pronouning them… when making a throw away comment that is less than 10 words involving a ludicrously common saying. Jerboa does not show users pronouns. I could switch to an app that DOES show the pronouns, do any Lemmings have a recommendation for a free Lemmy mobile app that has that feature?

Edit: Edie chimed in, Jerboa does show pronouns. It's a formatting issue with mobile vs browser (She has them on individual text lines so they don't appear on mobile).

Was just going to respond to the user in question to let them know I wasn't purposefully trying to offend that individual, to discover I'm not able to post or make comments on world now, so figured I'd see what y'alls opinion on the matter is.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago (24 children)

Just be more careful with gendered language. Also, the trans flag was right there

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

That's a pretty reasonable misunderstanding, I don't speak for anyone but myself but generally as long as there's no malice involved I'm not upset by an accidental misgendering.

I'm on jerboa too and didn't even know there were specific pronouns on accounts, I just chucked mine in my bio.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

There aren't specific pronouns. One can just use the display name option to add pronouns

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Generally I wouldn't take that kind of thing too seriously from hexbears they love conflict and actively seek it out

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

I lurk quite a bit, rarely comment or post. Have seen a lot of complaints about the Hexbearers, didn't think they were too bad (well there are accounts on there that do seem to like to push Russian/Chinese talking points frequently + consistently). However overall the community provides some high quality content/insight.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

when unsure or lazy i use they/them

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Sometimes moderation is ridiculous. More “zealous” moderation teams just strike everyone relentlessly. Usually the kind of people that make boomers label every young people as snowflakes

Back when I was on Reddit, on the LTT subreddit, I started reading rumours that formerly known as Anthony (I am here meming with the whole X ordeal), had transitioned into Emily, and I checked the website sorta confused. I thought it was just a mistake or a joke until I saw it actually confirmed. So I did that whole party meme with me at the corner not realising that he had transitioned into she, and everyone else already having congratulated her. This got me banned.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

People get banned for less while certain other shit just stays up. It is all about mods bias, thats just how things are.

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[–] southsamurai 2 points 2 days ago

I just checked the apps I use, and sync shows display names properly.

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