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Asklemmy

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A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions

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  1. Open-ended question
  2. Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other.
  3. Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
  4. Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members
  5. An actual topic of discussion

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[–] [email protected] 108 points 5 months ago

No, askreddit is the reddit version of asklemmy.

[–] [email protected] 68 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 48 points 5 months ago

That's it boys, let's pack it up!

[–] [email protected] 36 points 5 months ago (1 children)

sir, this is a burger king.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Could I get a large whopper meal?

[–] xmunk 15 points 5 months ago

You got eighteen bucks?

[–] [email protected] 34 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (7 children)

In theory yes, although the moderation is pretty lacking. So people use it as tech support, ideological rants, yes/no questions, support with actually using Lemmy, DAE, and all other manner of stuff that theoretically doesn't fit on here, and which is often low effort and doesn't prompt much discussion.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

At least we don't get the hourly "What's the sexest sex you've ever sexed" question from someone who's horny on the internet for their first time.

[–] Ziggurat 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Even though there is already a [email protected] and a [email protected] This c/ is still quite small, and doesn't get saturated with questions which belong elsewhere. Somehow splitting the content over 3 communities also get them way more empty than a big active one.

We're still far from the magic reload button we have on that other website which every minutes would see tons of new post.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

It’s also fun to let the user interpret what sort of question they want to ask. Sometimes it’s fun when people do unexpected things.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)

theoretically doesn’t fit on here,

According to what theory?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

the theory of Utopian Tightwaddery

The fewer options people have to do the wrong thing, the better everything becomes. Eventually, (in theory), we’ll get to a world where all you do is press a big green button and get a shiny sticker each day.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 20 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

"Does anyone else... (have trouble finishing video games/use their toenail clippings to add texture to a pot of chili/etc.)?"

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago

Just to add, on Reddit it was segregated away from askreddit pretty early on in the site's life because it was realized that there's not much useful discussion that can come off a question structured in that way. Better to ask something like "do you do X? Why or why not". DAE is mostly just people seeking approval.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago

Ah, thanks, also, hilarious examples!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, I guess some people think it's more of an Ask Jeeves than an Ask Reddit. Might be better if it was just called "open-ended questions"or something like that.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

Or maybe everything that isn’t specified is open-ended.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

So it’s better

[–] [email protected] -1 points 5 months ago

Good, let's keep it that way. Lack of freedom of speech is what has made that 3rd Reich of Reddit impossible to use.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 5 months ago

It's called "Ask Lemmy", so no... It's about lawnmower maintenance.

[–] ashenblood 24 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Nope. That's over at [email protected]. This is the Lemmy version of askMarxists

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I have blocked lemmygrad, but shouldn't a potential [email protected] be the Marxist one?

I have heard that people dislike this instance as it is run by the devs who people claim to be right wing.

[–] ashenblood 7 points 5 months ago (2 children)

You are correct. I was only joking, lemmy.ml is officially a general purpose server and this community is meant for everybody. But nonetheless, lemmy.ml users tend to be very leftist.

I'm confused by the second part, are you referring to lemmy.ml or lemmy.world when you say this instance? If people are claiming that the Lemmy devs are right wing... wow.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

They tend to be very Marxist. Let’s be specific.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 months ago

Since this thread is hosted on lemmy.ml, I meant that.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Nah. Not enough sex questions.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 months ago (1 children)

But like… in a sexy way?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I hit that... sexually

[–] xmunk 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Well, AskRedditAfterDark was actually a surprisingly wholesome and awesome community that I miss... I don't think we've got enough folks to build something similar, though.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 5 months ago

Yes. Although on AskReddit, this question would've been removed by the automod because it's technically a yes or no question.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

Yea - the thing is that it's called "AskLemmy" when really the whole Fediverse can access the community. I feel like it would've been better suited to call it "AskFedi" or something else. In general it doesn't really make sense to use the software as the name for stuff.

People here say "lemmy" way too much when they really should consider the Fediverse as a whole.

EDIT: Curious why people are down voting, anyone care to explain their perspective on this?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

That's a good point, even the platforms may change over time (either by name, or entire projects migrating).

People here say "lemmy" way too much when they really should consider the Fediverse as a whole.

Part of it is that we don't federate that nicely to the rest of the fediverse yet. I expect that to change over time though

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

Part of it is that we don’t federate that nicely to the rest of the fediverse yet

I mean, kinda? But it federates well enough I would say. I regularly see Mastodon or kbin users and I feel it's not fair to those users to refer to the spaces on Lemmy instances as "lemmy". And as you note, it's short sighted - Lemmy might not be around in 10 years and some other implementation might take over.

But tbf I'm not sure exactly what the federation problems are right now. I'm not sure how Lemmy could federate better (if at all).

This is part of the reason I went with feddit.dk and not lemmy.dk.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Yea it's really about what people have as the mental model for the platform they are on. It might take time for people to internalize what the network is doing.

Mastodon and Lemmy do mix as it is, but it could be better. Two big areas I've heard are

  • Lemmy users need the ability to follow mastodon users (kbin has this I believe)

  • Mastodon users have a hard time following Lemmy communities and seeing posts, because they end up getting a waterfall of every post/comment at once overwhelming their feeds

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

First part is definitely lemmy but I don't mind it that much tbh. It feels like it should be possible to post on your own profile (not on any community) and then you'd see posts from users you subscribe to just like you see posts from communities. I think reddit actually has this functionality.

The second point sounds more like something mastodon should fix. Like not including every reply in the feed or something, I don't know.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

it's not fair to those users to refer to the spaces on Lemmy instances as "lemmy"

Why wouldn’t that be fair?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

Because those spaces are just as accessible from other instances that may not use Lemmy. They're not on "Lemmy", they're on the underlying protocol, i.e. ActivityPub, which is the major part of the fediverse.

It'd be like if you had an Outlook email and instead of referring to it as your email, you refer to it as your Outlook, even though other email implementations can just as easily talk to you. Outlook is just an email implementation, it's not what email is. That's the protocol.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 5 months ago

I will always call this type of discussion forum β€œreddit”. This format, with upvotes, downvotes, nested replies, and collapsible descendants, is reddit

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 months ago

It is one version, yes, I subscribe to asklemmy on both lemmy.ml and lemmy.world

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

What’s lemmy? My grandson told me these were the reddits.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago
[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago

Ask reddit has a lot of annoying rules, e.g. no questions with a definite right answer

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago
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[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

Yes because most people are from reddit : )