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i’m doing it because I want to make the fediverse more friendly place, in hopes of making it more welcoming for new users, and the nicer place in general. But I wonder how much is just less bots.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

It's almost like all the nice people with actual moral compasses have ditched Reddit for the likes of Lemmy, Tildes and Kbin. Reddit has been left to become a toxic shitshow.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

Im still finding it a strange world to be part of

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

There is also no karma whore. So even if you say something offending to some, who cares?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Have an upvote my fellow fedinaut

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I still type shitty things. But then I stop and rephrase in a more human way.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (18 children)

No, not really. Have a "wrong" opinion and see how it goes.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I think maybe as well it always became really heated with the Reddit bots when you would express a differing opinion to theirs. There were many times bots would pick a fight and then argue with you like it was their job (because it was). This feels more chill like the early days of Reddit and I hope it stays that way.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (5 children)

It is hit or miss. I just got into a fight with a MAGA troll claiming that wikipedia vote totals are completely made up. I thought I wouldn't have to deal with stupidity like that on lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The Internet is the Internet. As the Fediverse grows, it'll encounter all the same problems that the other social media platforms do, except one: People won't be locked into a single website controlled by a monolithic corporation. That's a big enough improvement in my books.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I find that Lemmy users are more likely to engage in earnest and once it started getting a flood of new users from Reddit it didn’t change. This combined with the fact that it suddenly had more content I was interested in convinced me to stop being a lurker and try to add something to the whole.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Have you talked to the Atheists on here? Cantankerous bunch. They've been in their little bubble for so long they get triggered by the slightest perceived critique of capitalist materialism.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (13 children)

Wait. What does atheism have to do with capitalist materialism?

How does my belief, or non belief, in god affect my lust for a Playstation 5.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I find everyone more open to discussion here and not snippy.

I wonder if it was just that Reddit was really polarized by the The Donald segment of its population and what happened with that community,, which don't seem to have come over here, since that made things rather hostile on Reddit. Whatever we are politically here seems to be pretty quiet this far, other than agreeing the insane stuff Republicans are doing in the US.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Mods are certainly nicer, that's for sure, and thus far, except in in ugly instances, everyone here has been intelligent and thoughtful, even in disagreement.

I think that federation here really helps - seems like the toxicity seems naturally get siloed as instances defederate from bad actors and users are blocked, and it really dilutes the impact a power-tripping mod can have on content, as it's far to easy to find another relevant community or instance that will accept your post.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Agreed! Found some bad apples here and there lately, but in general people are nicer and more civil.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Hogwash you son of a bitch! Now, take my upvote.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Reddit is a cesspit, so glad I discovered the fediverse. This guys skits sums up Reddit perfectly.

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8RGqrqv/

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I've already seen some, lets say disagreeable people floating around, but the moderators seem to be doing well to take care of it. Nothing is wrong with someone that has an opposing view, but being unnecessarily combative or straight up an asshole is too much.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I disagree, but I uovoted you anyway. ;-)

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I agree! It’s our choice what we want the culture to be around here. We can make it a friendly one :-).

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