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[–] [email protected] 62 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (6 children)

Hot take: your gender is irrelevant in 90% of situations

[–] SuddenDownpour 21 points 10 months ago

Should be irrelevant even more often.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 10 months ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 36 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Honestly I'd fuck anything at this point. Gender included.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago
[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago

( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago

All my homies hate gender

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

For who? And what situations?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

Other than peeing while standing being easier and my inability to give birth, I'm not sure I can come up with another 9.9% of the time to fill that gap.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

They don't think it be like it is, but it do, it do.

[–] [email protected] 31 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 13 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children)

nyaa mrowrr prrrrbt meow :3

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I prefer the Popeye method: "I yam what I yam"

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 10 months ago (5 children)

op here, im bigender and this is how it be

[–] [email protected] 42 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I'm bigender

I'm big. Please don't end me. 🥺

[–] [email protected] 19 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I'm bi, please don't gender me. 😫

[–] [email protected] 19 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

You're safe for now im bi-gender haha

[–] [email protected] 16 points 10 months ago (3 children)

[saw voice] hello bigender op im a cat an i demand pet mrow meow meow mrowr meoww

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

prrrrrr mrow <3

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 10 months ago

Blahaj moment

[–] [email protected] 15 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

cishet and still giving you critical support in your struggles against rigid gender role binarism 🫡

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I appreciate the sentiment but why critical support though

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

Because aiming for body shots is for casuals

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago (1 children)

You are a Schrodinger sexual?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

i mean i identify as bisexual?? but idk i guess it would be schrodinger's sexual. im the cat in that box. nyan~

[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

le epic comment take my upvote XDDDD

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

"Depends on what day it is and which direction the wind is blowing" is how I like to describe my gender

[–] tquid 3 points 10 months ago

Full on Madhyamika gender

[–] FractalsInfinite 3 points 10 months ago (4 children)

Personally I don't engage with gender. Gender is only useful in changing peoples perceptions of yourself and I don't find people "lying" about my identity to my face to be an issue. I would identify as non binary or agender, but to do that would induce cognitive burden on others and make survay data more difficult, so I just don't. Life is too short to bother educating people you meet about how you understand your own gender.

Who am I, I'm fractal and my pronouns are whatever you are willing to calling me in this moment.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

cool beans you do you but some people find comfort in such labels and thats valid just as your viewpoint is valid

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago

I think I'm the same, which I guess is a privileged position to be in

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