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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/BeKaykTeeX on 2024-01-24 04:58:33+00:00.
I(22m) have been with my gf (24f) for over a year, she has seen my best and worst. And i love her.
3 months ago i met one girl(19f) through college activity, i use to give her a ride home after practice because we’re on the same way. We share same group of college friends so we went to a few parties, group vacation together.
After times tension naturally started to build up, we both know what’s going on but no one said a thing. She also have a boyfriend already. My friends and her friends also knew because it’s obvious when we’re together.
Now, college activities are finished, i won’t get to see her anymore unless we ran into each other in campus. I don’t know why but that idea seems sad to me. Even if it’s how things should be, i also think about her a lot. We’re just happy when we spend time together, even if it’s so little.
Does these feelings ever go away? Is it natural to feel for somebody else over your girlfriend, or have i already cheated? Should i be honest about this with my girlfriend?
Tl;dr i liked another girl but we both already in a relationship, how can i stop it?