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The original was posted on /r/getmotivated by /u/SocietyOfSideHustle on 2024-01-10 16:42:44+00:00.
I think this is the hardest thing to master. But also the most important when it comes to discipline.
Your friend gives you a call to hang out, and you instantly drop your priorities. This is a common scenario where the ability to say "no" plays a crucial role. It's natural to want to spend time with friends and enjoy social interactions, but it's equally important to recognize when these invitations conflict with your personal goals and responsibilities.
If you frequently find yourself abandoning your tasks or commitments for impromptu social events, it could indicate a lack of discipline in prioritizing and sticking to your goals. The key is to strike a balance. It's not about always saying "no" to friends, but rather understanding when it's appropriate to do so.
This involves assessing the importance and urgency of your current priorities versus the benefits of socializing.
Every time you say "yes" to something, you're implicitly saying "no" to something else. Saying "yes" to a friend might mean saying "no" to your personal goals, whether it's studying, working on a project, or even just taking time for yourself.
You don't want to lose your friends to stay disciplined so the key is to plan thoroughly. Leave time where you could go and hang out with them, but don't take away time from your goals otherwise you'll always be playing catch up.
Discipline Resources
Self Development Snack Newsletter:
Chris Willx Youtube Channel:
Matt Graham:
Mel Robbins: