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The original was posted on /r/getmotivated by /u/DetectiveJakePeraIta on 2024-01-01 00:28:42+00:00.
Used to be good friends with a girl in school. I am always really bad at staying in touch. To the point where I just don’t. Don’t really know why either. I just don’t. Guess I don’t understand how.
Anyway I was good friends with this girl called Jay, hadn’t seen her since graduation in 21. Then I saw her again at the grocery store in august 22. She actually suggested a reunion back then, never happened of course. I should have sent her a message or something sooner. But I didn’t.
But I did just now. Said “hey Jay, we haven’t spoken in a while but I wanted to wish you a happy new year.” She replied, pretty much mirroring my message. I wonder how I should go about this? Should I respond rn or should I wait until tomorrow as it’s 1:00 am here now? And what should I even say? I’d like to do that reunion. Should I apologize for not reaching out? Should I immediately ask if she still wants that reunion?