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Does anyone else find absolute silence difficult to deal with? In particular difficult to sleep in complete silence?

I think it started from a young age, being obsessed with music. Falling asleep with music.

As an adult, I still struggle with this and need some form of audio to drift off, be it music or something else.

More recently, I find stand-up comedy works best - it's light-hearted and doesn't require too much thought.

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[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I have tinnitus, so absolute silence is never enjoyable for me. Music works extremely well; I fall asleep with the tv on.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (2 children)

When I read the title of the post, I immediately wondered if anybody else with tinnitus had commented yet.

"Silence" sounds amazing, would love to try it some time πŸ˜…

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Me too. I don’t even remember what silence doesn’t sound like. XD

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Put your hands over your ears and drum your fingers on the back of your head for 20-30 seconds.

It doesn't last for long but (if it works for you), blissful silence.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I Think I might too. Need to get checked. Always a low humming. Sometimes high pitch ringing. But I meant more of not being able to settle my mind.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Well, I have ADHD so I can identify with that also. lol

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I've been using a fan. It almost entirely hides the ringing