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On Reddit I would feel like I was speaking to one individual all the time. All of the top comments were like they were written by the same person. Here I think everyone is unique
Huh, interesting that that's your experience. One of the things I've found myself disliking here is that the power users seem to drive even more of the conversation. I have never seen so much Star Trek content in my life because by chance two particularly active users happen to be big on Star Trek. I've got nothing against the Star Trek stuff but it catches my attention, you know?
I suppose it's possible that the reddit experience I'm comparing it to was quite different from the usual one. It's also possible there's just something else making me notice specific names more here than there. It's not the end of the world, and I'm much more likely to post comments than threads so I'm not doing a lot to help the situation anyway
You are not wrong - the entire experience in the Fediverse is foundationally different than Reddit. In the latter, you mostly would visit niche subs, and then supplement with the popular subs when you ran out of content there. Although in those, I mostly would avoid talking, bc it was so toxic (did you notice how defensive you became on Reddit? Yeah, we all were that way), and eventually got to where I could barely stand to read most content either bc it was just so freaking juvenile.
It would even be fun if it were like 1-5 comments and you just scroll on down to read the real stuff... but damn, soon enough it became pretty much all there was, period. HUNDREDS of them IN A ROW. Or at least 90%, with anyone deviating from that norm getting pounced upon, and thereby their subsequent obvious defensiveness and eventual demise painful to see (as every conversation simply wound down to the side not participating in group-think simply giving up and walking away).
When Reddit collapsed, I came here, but I was leaving Reddit either way. It just became un-fun.:-(
Anyway, whereas here, niche communities barely exist, getting a post a week perhaps rather than one per hour, just to throw out some numbers but ofc ymmv. So you do see more the finer grain details of individual posters, simply because of how much smaller the entire Fediverse community itself is. Which sort of gives it more character?:-D
And spending more time on All rather than the niche communities becomes more mandatory, plus spending less time here overall. Though I do not think of that as a bad thing at all - we should be doing things other than merely gabbing at one another, even if only in order to have more to talk about:-).