this post was submitted on 02 Feb 2024
1 points (100.0% liked)
/r/Denmark
153 readers
1 users here now
GÅ TIL FEDDIT.DK
Kommentarerne du skriver her sendes ikke tilbage til Reddit.
founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
view the rest of the comments
Sheepherder196 at 2024-02-02 08:57:20+00:00 ID:
kokerffYou're considered a loser if you have an only fans and people won't really respect you. People will 100% disagree with this comment to polish their ego but it is the truth
Dovelark at 2024-02-02 09:55:24+00:00 ID:
kokkco9Untrue, my friends know I run an OF and they think it's cool as fuck
PseudoY at 2024-02-02 11:00:03+00:00 ID:
koklq0pIt's just going to depend on people's circles. Some people frown on someone making/doing porn, some think it's cool, a lot don't care.
Sheepherder196 at 2024-02-02 11:12:26+00:00 ID:
kokmtkxOf course they wouldn't tell you they respect you less lmao
Dovelark at 2024-02-02 11:15:53+00:00 ID:
kokn4n8Yes they respect me so little that they're asking me for advice on how they can start their own OF :3
Sheepherder196 at 2024-02-02 11:23:24+00:00 ID:
koknswzThe only one you're trying to convince here is yourself. The majority will have less respect, that's just how it is. Don't for one second think the average person in Denmark think only fans is considered a good career choice. They consider it a worst case solution
Dovelark at 2024-02-02 11:26:40+00:00 ID:
koko3ikI have a career as an engineer already, onlyfans is just a hobby that gives me extra to spend :3
The Denmark I know, is a quite progressive country where you are respected regardless of what career path you choose, assuming it's not criminal or unethical.
Sheepherder196 at 2024-02-02 11:32:36+00:00 ID:
kokon3oAnd I'm native and know the average dane in every age group. Not just the progressive ones
Dovelark at 2024-02-02 11:50:12+00:00 ID:
kokqc3zI'm also a native. Almost all my friends are progressive and lgbt, and my husband REALLY supports my OF work. So yea, I never meet any judgement for what I do. Except from incels like you I guess.
Sheepherder196 at 2024-02-02 12:03:12+00:00 ID:
kokrmt7I'm just saying what average people think. Not progressive LGBT people. And since you can't read, I've never stated I respect them less and think they're losers. It's just what completely average people think and it's the truth. So go fuck yourself. Du kan selv være en fucking incel
Dovelark at 2024-02-02 12:27:36+00:00 ID:
koku81bEn incel der er gift med en mand, nå ja :3
larholm at 2024-02-02 12:30:52+00:00 ID:
kokukuzHusk lige at tænke over debattonen. Vær konstruktiv og respektfuld. Undgå nedladende sprog. Respekter andres synspunkter. Skab et velkomment debatmiljø.
Dette er en ikke en påtale, men en venlig opfordring fra modteamet om at vi bør holde en god debattone så vi kan bevare det hyggelige og engagerende fællesskab vi kalder r/Denmark.
Fra Reddit Content Policy:
Har du spørgsmål eller kommentarer til dette, kan du skrive en besked til os igennem modmail.
larholm at 2024-02-02 12:31:22+00:00 ID:
kokumsgHusk lige at tænke over debattonen. Vær konstruktiv og respektfuld. Undgå nedladende sprog. Respekter andres synspunkter. Skab et velkomment debatmiljø.
Dette er en ikke en påtale, men en venlig opfordring fra modteamet om at vi bør holde en god debattone så vi kan bevare det hyggelige og engagerende fællesskab vi kalder r/Denmark.
Fra Reddit Content Policy:
Har du spørgsmål eller kommentarer til dette, kan du skrive en besked til os igennem modmail.
Ralph_Waldo_Emerson at 2024-02-02 11:44:25+00:00 ID:
kokprmqfrom your comments it doesn't seem so.
LocalLifeguard at 2024-02-02 11:49:27+00:00 ID:
kokq9edI don't really care what people do with their lives, but saying one does OnlyFans, means absolutely nothing. As you have everything from people doing hardcore porn for pennies, to women earning millions, just by showing themselves in bikinies.
When it comes to being accepted, it all depends to what circles one travels in. But yeah, Denmark is one of the least prudish countries in the world, doesn't mean everyones parents would be cool with their offspring doing hardcore porn.
Last, for gods sake be honest about the consequences of doing stuff like hardcore porn. I don't think girls should start out with stuff like that, right when they turn 18, it is SUCH a big life decision, and will follow you for the rest of your life. People will send that stuff to your friends, family etc. If you decide to have kids, odds are they will bullied by other kids. Its unfortunately just the risky consequences of doing that type of stuff.
Dovelark at 2024-02-02 11:53:34+00:00 ID:
kokqoagThe last bit is definitely not a worry, considering I'm a castrated trans girl who cannot get pregnant
LocalLifeguard at 2024-02-02 12:00:26+00:00 ID:
kokrcpzA non-progressive transwoman, what are the odds.../jk
Its 2024, Dennis Knudsen famous danish gay hairdresser has 3 kids by surrogat, i think we are beyond what normally would stop somebody like you from having a family, if thats what you want.
Also, its not to scare people away from it, just something people definitely should take into consideration, and way off the pros and cons.
TeosPWR at 2024-02-02 10:43:52+00:00 ID:
kokh2r2Not true in the slightest, I often mention Belle Delphine as a successful business woman. Turning owning a webcam and a bathtub in to a multi million dollar business is impressive and worthy of respect.
Did she eXpLoIt WeAk MeN, yes, but so does gambling companies, charities, political parties, banks, grocery stores etc. Businesses are not your friend, get over it.
Sheepherder196 at 2024-02-02 10:38:57+00:00 ID:
kokjy5k🥱🥱🥱
OneDragonfruit9519 at 2024-02-02 10:52:08+00:00 ID:
kokl1tkOne doing wrong doesn't make another wrong alright. It like saying, that because someone is a piece of tax evading trash, it alright that other people do it as well.
She's a scam artist, exploiting weak people.
TeosPWR at 2024-02-02 11:26:20+00:00 ID:
koko2fbSo why are you mad?
Is it because she is a woman or because the service provided is sexual in nature?
Are you equally mad when a man provides a service which is consumer based? ex. sells you are "dream car" that you will pay off over the next 10 years because in reality it wasn't really affordable to your budget?
OneDragonfruit9519 at 2024-02-02 13:16:03+00:00 ID:
kokzy7qFuck off, seriously.
I hate scammers, that all. She's no different from, for instance, people, who calls and pretends to be someone else (Microsoft, Apple), stealing from elderly people or the people pushing NFTs on kids.
Exploiting weak and fragile people is wrong. That many people do it, doesn't justify anything. I hate them all equally with a passion.
Also: Anyone who offers a buyer to pay off a car loan over 10 years, should go be made to sign a document, that they themselves made sure, that the buyer understand all the complications and downsides to the deal, because no reasonable person, would pay off a car over 10 years, if they understand the implications.
TeosPWR at 2024-02-02 13:19:15+00:00 ID:
kol0d4eThere is a distinct difference between scam calls and OF.
Scam call: They call you, they trick you, you fall for it.
OF: You go on to the website, you create an account, you sign up to someone's OF, you enter your credit card information, you accept the terms and services.
Something you as a person sign up for of your own free will cannot be a scam.
OneDragonfruit9519 at 2024-02-02 14:29:23+00:00 ID:
kola8iuSure it can.
Besides, I'm not saying OF is a scam, so nice of you to make a strawman argument there, I'm saying that people, such as that person or like people such as Trump or Andrew Tate, are scammers. Exactly like scam callers or MLM. Just because a scam is slightly more complex than a scam call, it is still a scam.
So fuck scammers and people who pays scammers any sort of respect.
TeosPWR at 2024-02-02 14:34:07+00:00 ID:
kolay84You specifically called an OF person a scammer, thats the basis for this discussion from my perspective
But if we can agree that people who use OF, neither the person accepting or giving the payment are scammers then we can end it here, hug? :17515:
OneDragonfruit9519 at 2024-02-02 18:18:42+00:00 ID:
komd81yHug.
Com'ere you!
Hugs
Ajensis at 2024-02-02 10:43:52+00:00 ID:
kokqrfdYour refusal to consider a different perspective to your own is astonishing. The arrogance of assuming you know how everyone else feels ... Just wow.
suggohndhees at 2024-02-02 15:52:36+00:00 ID:
kolnna8Doing sex work including porn is for sure frowned upon in most social circles.
Ajensis at 2024-02-02 16:05:16+00:00 ID:
kolpt3nI was objecting to the notion that ALL social circles would frown upon it. Certainly, I imagine that most Danes would disapprove, but it's my impression that it's trending in the other direction as the older generations and their ideas of what's proper and not are replaced with more tolerant attitudes. Perhaps I'm wrong in that, but at the very least I'm certain that the comment I was replying to is 100 % wrong.
Sheepherder196 at 2024-02-02 12:06:19+00:00 ID:
kokry4sWhere am I stating this is MY perspective? It's just the honest truth of what people in general think. Just wow omg girl, bish please
Ajensis at 2024-02-02 12:10:48+00:00 ID:
koksf4vCan't tell if you're trolling at this point. Anyway, you're dead wrong, but I'm not wasting any more time on a "debate" like this.
sofusja at 2024-02-02 09:48:15+00:00 ID:
kokfwwnI would maybe frown a bit on people who have an only fan, but not much. I wouldn't consider them losers. I would maybe put them somewhere in the same category as people who believe in astrology, love Morten Korch movies or think Infernal is good music. It's all ordinary madness.
OneDragonfruit9519 at 2024-02-02 10:49:41+00:00 ID:
kokku8qInteresting approcah.
Just for the heck of it: What constitutes good music? Infernal might not be Mozart, but how do you rate good music? Balkan and Jazz music is likely the most complex, does that count as good music? Is Dream Theater making good music? Is Tool? Is Bruno Mars good music? Or nationalisitc TV2?
What is the goal of music? If it's about making people happy and just enjoy the present is good music and go nuts at live concerts, then Infernal makes good music. Is bagpipe techno a good style or genre, probably not.
The top artist in Denmark is propably Gilli right now, is that good music? Does Taylor Swift make good music?
sofusja at 2024-02-02 11:29:31+00:00 ID:
kokocysHa ha, it's way easier to define what's not good music.
But objectively speaking, and I say this as a semi pro jazz musician, people should absolutely listen to whatever makes them happy. But i think it's somewhat possible to judge music on how much either emotional or harmonic information it contains. And its not necessarily a question about personal preferences.
I like, and play, Balkan music very much. But Tool doesn't really resonate with me. But I can still acknowledge, that Tool contains a lot of musical information.
I agree, that it's not easy to use an excact scale to measure good music. But most music is quite easy to judge. You can compare it to movies. A romantic comedy with Jennifer Aniston is not really a good movie, it doesn't really deliver any cinematographic information except the most rudimentary. While a Cohen brothers movie definitely is a better movie measured on the level of information.
And information is not only technical. It's also emotional. While Leonard Cohens music might be simple, it's very complex emotionally. Opposed to Infernal. They are very rudimentary emotional. Again, the emotions in a Jennifer Aniston movie aren't really that complex, deep or even authentic, as the emotions in a Cohen brothers movie.