Respectfully, no, I'm not going to "try to be less judgemental."

I see a show that continues it's long tradition of inclusiveness and respect for all people by including characters that are sexual and gender minorities. I then see people who claim to be fans, not just of the show, but also of what it has always been trying to do, complaining about it doing what it's always done.

I'm going to judge. I have judged, and I've found you wanting.