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[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

For a lot of surgeons that do bottom surgery, they care more about how it looks rather than how it feels. i.e. they don’t care if you can’t orgasm.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Oh god well I guess that's one more thing to worry about, thanks for the heads up

[–] [email protected] -1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

To add on, they also care more about depth for penetration than sensation

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Do you have any advice for finding surgeons that aren't like that?

[–] [email protected] -1 points 7 months ago

I haven't done research on it in years