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Being content despite all of it.
We shouldn't be striving to be "content" we should be livid, pissed, terrified, motivated.
Being content while the world is falling apart is madness and the more people that are "content" means more people unwilling to actually make the changes necessary to fix the problems we have.
Apathy is death.
"content" doesn't preclude any of that.
"Content" simply means you feel as if you could live life with what you have. It doesn't mean you can't WANT more. It doesn't mean you can't hate how badly the system is bending you and others over. It's simply a state of being that is, "at the end of the day, none of this is unbearable. I will continue living, and as such, there's no need for an extreme emotional response."
Drive, desire, fight.. all of it can exist, and you can still maintain contentedness.
That's the part I'm having issues with. There's very much a need for extreme emotional response.
Idk clearly I'm not picking up what you're putting down and I apologize for seeming so hostile. I'm just at the point of wanting to commit acts of terror because the people in charge are making protest illegal.
I just don't see how that's any different from "it is what it is" in the first place.
I think I understand you. I also think there are needs for extreme emotional response. However, I would be interested how often they helped you in, and how often the only effect of these was making you feeling worse?
I did some therapy in this direction. And I am generally more content. I can enjoy way more time of my life than a year ago, even in similar situations.
But if we talk about the status of the world, I am at least as angry and sad as before. And I also do at least as much to change it as before. Which, to be honest, is not as much as I would like.
Edit: I think I can actually experience emotions more intense now, while not being overwhelmed by them.