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A while back I started doing this thing where I give a genuine and specific compliment to a stranger whenever it occurs to me, then immediately disengaging.
In my mind, by the time they've processed the words I'm no longer trying to interact with them - I try to be specific so it hopefully feels genuine, but I get out of there immediately
I have no idea if it lands like intended, but some girl complimented my leopard shoes while power walking past, and it was way more memorable. Having to suddenly decode someone's intentions leaves my mind too busy to internalize a compliment, and usually I just shrug off compliments if it's not something I'm proud of, but the drive by compliment sticks with me