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[–] [email protected] 45 points 9 months ago (4 children)

Yeah, the dread of seeing a new notification in the inbox turns out to be something pretty chill surprisingly often

[–] [email protected] 11 points 9 months ago

UR FACE IS PRETTY CHILL

[–] [email protected] 11 points 9 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 12 points 9 months ago (3 children)

I still had the dread before opening this. Wonder if that ever goes away

[–] tenacious_mucus 10 points 9 months ago (3 children)

Psst…im in your inbox…feeling the same dread. (Please dont reply, i might not be ready for another reply yet 😆)

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago

I hope your day is wonderful

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago

ANGRY LOOKING ALL CAPS REPLY!!!

Nice comment bro.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

You can't tell me what to do!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

Only way to know is to try it again! Soooo hopefully I didn’t give you too much dread 😅

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

It's basic fear response conditioning, I doubt it ever fully goes away because being cautious of the unknown is a very successful survival trait.

Basically every time you open that inbox you'd have to lie to yourself into believing that a negative response is an impossibility. Good luck, if you figure it out let me know.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago

I blocked the notification with uBlock and just pretend nobody ever reads or comments on my comments. You can say whatever you want if nobody is around to hear it.

Not having a global karma score that is require to post in different subreddits helps too.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Depends on the subject. Try to criticize left wing subjects and see what happens.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I've seen left-wingers and communists attacked by 'tankies'

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Yeah that too.