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I don’t think so, but having partner buy-in is def important. Actors that do sex scenes or models that take nude photos/videos aren’t generally considered cheaters for doing so, but doing it in secret might be a breach of trust.
Yeah, if your partner did it behind your back for whatever reason and you found out about it I would say that that is an offense worthy of possibly ending the relationship over.
I wouldn't call it cheating, but I would call it a breach of the trust in the relationship.
If my girlfriend didn't trust me enough to tell me that she's wanting to do that then what else is she going to keep from me?
Maybe I'm not the right person for her if she feels like she can't tell that to me.