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No, I'm a case study of "I actually grew up in a farming community, had enough vegan friends, and came up with my own conclusions" See, I see zealous vegans the same way I see dirty cops or post-1/6 Trump fans. Best-case is deluded, worst case is bad-faith.
One common trend is how much vegans will double- and triple-down on the idea that because they feel veganism is morally superior, it's actually magically better in every other way, from health to the environment. When you discuss with someone whose "spoke" arguments are based upon what they consider a moral imperative, the truth doesn't matter.
There's something wrong with the health/environment/morals tripod of veganism. Everything that is real has pros and cons, and everything that doesn't have cons is a fiction or exaggeration. The way these moral vegans come out swinging, their description of the vegan reality is indefensible. Eating vegetables is alleged to be tastier, better for the environment, healthier, easier, cheaper, faster, more ethical. Then come the contradictions... people, even experts, who eat meat as part of their healthy diet, farmers that keep livestock (despite having to PAY the government more in taxes, not getting subsidies) because it's more sustainable for them. The list goes on, until you're picking the battles based on the things the other side won't immediately see as willful ignorance.
There's no element of physical addiction to meat-eating. The supermajority of humans eat animal products because it is the right choice for them, for their health, based upon their morals, and in many cases for their sustainability.
So sorry if "knowing what I'm fucking talking about" is antivegan rhetoric. Have a nice day, I don't expect a reply.
If you wanted to be honest, it would be "look, I know it's going to fuck up your ecosystem and local sustainability, but animal lives are important to me" or "look, I know it's harder to eat healthy and requires more research and supplements, but we can figure it out". Those are positions I'd respect, if disagree with (because my ethical position, a fairly well-established one, considers eating meat to be perfectly fine)
You're fine to believe all that, it just comes across as though you're assuming everyone who eats meat has done the due diligence in finding out what happens behind closed doors. That's not the case, and it's too obvious you're wrapped up in your own views to ever change based on what one guy tells you on the Internet. You have to do the work yourself, but only if you want to, which by now, you can't.
Which is OK, people who care are putting in the work, and the world will be better for it.
I hope you find compassion one day, because I'm certainly not telling you why you should be.
Not really. Actions speak. People who are choosing to eat meat are choosing to do so for some reason. If vegan food is really better than meat in every possible way, nobody would choose to eat meat for any reason.
Someone doesn't need to be as educated on the meat/vegetable discussion as I am to make those decisions. Obviously I feel the same way about most vegans as you do about meat eaters. I've literally had unprepared vegans tell me that it's better to let overpopulation wrack an area than to hunt and eat deer.
There comes a point where one is educated enough on an issue that it's not easy to get them to flip-flop in the opposite direction of all the evidence and their conclusions. That is not the same as closedmindedness or zeal. But more importantly, the "ecology, health, ethics" gishgallop often used in vegan debate is ineffective at doing anything but guilt someone too ignorant to see it happening (which is the whole point I was making tot hat person, who was shifting the topic). Or did you mention ignorance above because it's about converting those who don't know better?
With all due respect, it's bad faith to accuse everyone with the opposite view as yours of being uneducated. I have discovered myself to be more educated and prepared than most militant vegans, put in more work, and make the world a better place than they do. The reason is that ultimately, veganism stems from a singular ethical position... not unlike the "single issue voters" so common in modern Democracy. If all you're seeing is "right and wrong", you can convince yourself on every other issue. I like to also point out how many good-faith religious folks are convinced homosexuality is harmful because they think it is immoral. Unfortunately, that's where I see vegans on these topics.
I think you are exemplifying this remark. You are so zealously and irrationally convinced of this "one and only right morality" that any human who would eat meat has no compassion. Ironically, I used to (and occasionally still do) feel the same way about vegans, since the only workable veganism involved agricultural anti-natalism. You note how above I said I'm more educated on topics than most vegans? The ones I'm not "more educated than" are the real problem here. They're the ones that, eventually, will admit that their vision of utopia involves preventing farm animals from being born as a better outcome than those animals living a better-than-nature life that happens to end on a dinner plate. I cannot get over the fact that position is the one more lacking of compassion.
So I guess this is the part where I hope YOU find the compassion one day to overcome your squeamishness and do your part to hunt a deer, keep some chickens, or just go to a local butcher to help the entire ecosystem.
True, actions speak. So I do what I can. You probably don't but that's an assumption I admit.
You've got a lot of assumptions, but that's OK. Like people choosing to eat meat. I don't think that, as I say, you're fine to believe the assumptions you make are fact. Even if they're anecdotal. Like people don't need to be educated. I disagree. And it's proven by the rhetoric used in discussing PETA.
Your "most vegans" argument is moot when as a vegan, the discussions surrounding rewilding are far more common than your slice of a piece of what I've talked about with them. As I reinstate, it's simply anti vegan rhetoric that you're so on board with, your world view is rocked, and can't see the forest from the trees.
For clarity, I don't think you're an idiot or uneducated, just misguided and have been misinformed for so long, your very core is against the idea, and you're smart enough to justify why you feel like that.
At the end of the day, you are against veganism, that's cool imo, but I do hope one day people like yourself can see the fight against oppression doesn't stop at humans.
And this right here is the problem. But you know that and I'm not sure you care.
I'm not the one judging the supermajority of people as "unworthy" and "uneducated". I make very few assumptions, and even fewer judgements. Look in the mirror.
People don't need to be propagandized. I'm all about education. I encourage education. For most problems, education is the way out. Listening to someone take their morals and convince you of some hokey pseudo-scientific claim of fact is not education.
Would you listen to yourself? If someone says something that doesn't match this clearly fictional view about a meatless-utopia is "rhetoric". Like I'm reading some "how to screw with perfect people, by Mr. Satan" pamphlets? How about this counter. The vegan side simply doesn't hold water. Period. That's it. My so-called rhetoric is just "calling bullshit".
Why? Because I disagree with vegans? All I see is trollish behavior and downvotes from people who demonstrably show lack of knowledge. When I grew up, my friends were becoming environmental engineers and farmers, and my family struggles have made me acutely aware of the complex nutritional questions that exist. I'm "misinformed" because I've been surrounded by experts in the various fields. But I suppose you would tell a PhD in nutrition that they're misinformed on the health side if they don't agree with you, and would tell a PhD in Environmental Engineering the same. I bet you would tell a small-time farmer that they're misinformed about how their negative-margin milk cow (since the strike price of milk is down) is still necessary because it's the only way their plant crops are profitable.
We're alllll just misinformed. But the vegans, oh boy, just like the Christians, those vegans know the right of it. And they'll save my soul if I just let them.
Correction. I'm against preachy, militant, veganism. More specifically, I'm against all proselytization, but that from veganism is the worst I've seen of late. I have vegans in my family, and I have no problem with them.
I already don't. While you're fighting to get everyone to stop eating meat, I do my part to fight against Big Ag (meat and plant). I support free range laws that are actually animals getting to live their best lives. I'm against anti-natalism (like PETA and anti-farm initiatives) because that is oppression, too. I fight against preachy vegans because they are oppressing animals in their own way.
Whatever beef... you have with veganism, I don't need to combat you. There are people that do know the middle way, and live it as much as possible, without needing to be taught. And there are people who will find it and learn from it. You may be one of them, but the energy you put into this back and forth isn't worth the time, honestly.
You should REALLY write a book, because there is nothing but anguish on your part to gain while messaging me, just as I realised there was nothing more to say 3 weeks ago. It's quite a shame you haven't noticed I checked out a while ago upon catching your anecdotal rhetoric, what if I just don't believe you, you've given no evidence to support your claims, and they're BOLD claims.
I've felt no need to explain myself, and if you feel morally inferior, that's on you. I'm not morally superior, but I strive to be better than I was. There's the difference.
I wish you the best in your life, even while contributing to unnecessary suffering while using a fantastic brain to justify it.
With militant preachy religions where outsiders are inferior.
For the rest, you've gone off the deep-end. I'll stop replying to you until the next time I see you insult me to somebody else.