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Importance of a low intellectual quotient (feddit.it)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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In recent weeks I have met a pretty and sweet girl with what I consider her only biggest problem: her IQ. She is slow, does not remember things and has no concentration at all, has no arguments, systematically repeats the usual twenty words. (A bit like the character of Forrest Gump, for those who do not know what low iq means). I feel like I like it to go deeper, but I wonder if it's not a mistake. Do you have similar experiences?

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Are we talking casual sex or long term relationship? If it’s long term, I think you answered your own question. If it’s a fling, you may feel like you’re taking advantage of her. But I’m just a simple caveman, your box full of lights frightens me.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes the feeling to taking advantage is something, not casual sex or long term, i'm talking about the beginning.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I’ve been on some wild dates. My car broke down and I had a shotgun drawn when asking for help. On a first date with another girl, we drove to the top of a mountain to look at the city. There were about 5 guys drinking there and they made sexual comments about my date. She asked if I was gonna defend her? I told her I wasn’t going to the hospital when I had just met her. She wasn’t the one.

[–] [email protected] -5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Thanks for sharing, not exactly the kind of lack of intellect I was talking about, but I understand what you mean. The girl I'm talking about wouldn't be able to understand that some drunk boys are offending us, maybe she would smile thinking that everything is going well.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I think I was trying to convey that relationships are an investment. And if you aren’t getting reciprocal intellectual or emotional support, it’s not likely to work out long term. But you’ll need to do what’s best for you.