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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Then it doesn't ring a bell.

People remember different things because different things are important to different people.

If the issue I have with remembering names, (I have tried multiple tricks to try and change that with no success) is going to upset someone who did remember details of a previous conversation, then the relationship is not going to have much success.

If I am colour-blind and a person gets upset about it, there is nothing I can do and the problem is with them, not me.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, fair point. The awkwardness definitely isn't as big of a deal as it feels like in the moment.

It's still nightmare fuel imo, lol, but everybody's different. I agree that it's no reason to feel guilty or upset with someone, for sure.