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Trans Voice Help
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Hi! This community exists as a place for trans people of all genders (or gender fluidity, or non-binary etc.) to help them overcome the challenges of being able to speak normally as their preferred gender. Upload audio clips, screenshots from analyzers, or what ever you feel like in order to get feedback and help perfected the voice you have into a state where you are comfortable.
Rules
These are going to be fairly open, since I trust that most posts here are seeking genuine help.
- No shaming. This should be obvious. People are looking for help and advice here.
- Absolutely no transphobic rhetoric will be tolerated. One warning (with a timeout), then a ban.
- If you post an audio file, keep it SFW. We don't need to hear that stuff.
- Keep criticisms pertinent and overall kind. Part of this whole thing is practice. We shouldn't expect immediate improvement.
- This is a zero politics zone. If you bring them up, goodbye.
- No slurs (I hate that I feel this is necessary)
- If you have negative feedback, do so in a constructively respectful manner while remembering that this kind of thing is a journey and can't be immediate.
- This being the internet, help with voice mod stuff is encouraged. It can make a huge difference for someone with voice dysphoria if others hear them they way they wish to sound.
- These rules are not necessarily exhaustive, and if you are generally a jerk or toll, expect a ban
Welcome! As I find them, I will be linking resources in this sidebar.
Resources
A good, free place to upload clips.
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You're struggling from the same issue that I am only now starting to overcome: since you've tried to fem your voice so much, you can't see that you're voice is perfectly passing and you get insecure because of that. The thing that helped me was someone random on the phone calling me "miss" without me telling me their name at a time when I wasn't even trying hard to do a fem voice. (Best Spam/Phishing call I ever received btw)
So if you keep talking like this and can sustain a voice like this for longer and longer then congrats: you have a new amazing girl voice.
For me, I didn't manage to sustain my "perfect" girl voice (but I also didn't try too hard) so I slipped into a passing but low feminin voice which may even fit me better since I feel like it's more natural (and for NB reasons). So don't worry if that specific tonality isn't sustainable for long