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How is that related to this?
Passive engagement in sex and relationships.
Realising sex and relationships are not something you seek out, they happened because the other person wanted it to and you thought you were supposed to want it too, so you let it happen.
Active sexuality feeling like sexual harassment when you try it out.
Passive engagement in sex and relationships now feeling like you're being sexually harassed too.
Ask self "am I Aro/Ace?"
Spend too long questioning if you are valid in holding this identity, because you have genuinely enjoyed sex before, even if you don't actually want to do it again with anyone. And maybe you just didn't try having a relationship with the right person, or you just kept doing it wrong because you're dumb or something?
And also what if it's a trauma thing? Surely that completely invalidates identifying with this label and is deeply offensive to the whole extended spectrum of gender and sexual identities?
Realise it doesn't matter because you are functionally Aro/Ace.
Identify as Aro/Ace.
Thanks for explaining - it's interesting because when I say that making the first move feels like sexual harassment, I actually mean something rather different: that expressing romantic interest feels morally wrong (or at least very rude) even though I do feel a great deal of romantic interest. In my case, having other people express romantic interest in me feels wonderful and not at all like being harassed.
Yes, I mean this too. I'm not sure how or why you would assume otherwise of me from what I wrote, so hopefully this has just been a mutual communication error between us.
In regards to the rest of your comment, Aro stands for Aromantic and you are not Aro as you state you enjoy romantic attention and relationships.
I am not Aro and so I was interested in the connection you experienced between what is apparently our shared discomfort at initiating a romantic interaction and your realization that you don't want romantic interaction at all. Then I thought you meant that active sexuality made you feel as if you were the one experiencing harassment, and this was a misunderstanding.