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[–] PiJiNWiNg 13 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Yeah, it is/was one of my greatest feelings of loss I've ever experienced. Broke down instantly. Makes me dread the day I get a call about one of my parents, but perhaps I'll be at least slightly more prepared then I would be otherwise. One could consider it a parting gift I suppose...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

I have power of attorney over my parents, and have strict instructions to pull the plug if there isn’t a significant chance of a full or near-full recovery. They’re in their 80s now, both with DNR instructions, so any chance of a significant recovery (if they have an incident) is becoming ever more remote. Plus, they’re in the channel for MAID - Medical Assistance In Death.

So yeah. I’m their personal Grim Reaper. And they’re counting on me to be exactly that.

But they brought me into this world, and I will do my duty of care to walk them out of it with as much grace and dignity as possible.